TONETTE KELLY is a British writer and parenting/relationship/life coach and a certified NLP practitioner. She has a particular passion for ensuring that children know and become excited about the opportunities available to them in life. Tonette believes that all children (and adults) need to be taught that they are not defined by their past and have the opportunity right now, in this moment to make any life they want. There are no limits other than those that are self-imposed. Many children (and adults) use hardships and adverse happenings to justify their current actions and attitudes. Tonette believes that we all need to recognise that we have the choice to limit themselves by excuses or accept the past, move forward and grasp all that life has to offer. We can be a victim or a winner depending on our mindset. Tonette is also passionate about ensuring that children learn to take responsibility for themselves as quickly as possible, including what they eat and the care they take of their bodies. This ensures good health and fitness and will help halt the growing childhood obesity crisis throughout Britain. Tonette is a keen researcher on the effects of diet on children's behaviour and on children's behavioural issues generally. She also conducts classes on family relationships and particularly focuses on the effects of separation and divorce on children and strategies to minimize adverse consequences from these common occurrences. Tonette imparts her knowledge of the law of attraction and believes that an understanding of this universal law is the key to success and happiness.