Cheating in a relationship is such a damaging betrayal of trust. While it is sometimes obvious that he is cheating, it can often take you completely by surprise.

Lying and cheating go hand in hand and are the quickest ways I know of to totally destroy a relationship. If you find yourself with suspicions about your man and his faithfulness, the first thing you need to keep your emotions calm and begin to gather evidence as to whether he is being unfaithful or not.

Many times a man who is an otherwise good boyfriend or husband can make a mistake. A majority of the men who end up cheating never thought it would ever happen with them. Unfortunately, 1 in 3 relationships will have to deal with infidelity. Cheating is not ok, ever. It destroys trust, causes pain, and can lead to the end of a relationship.

Top 7 Signs He Is Cheating

1. He is increasingly unresponsive and distant towards you – If he is suddenly unattentive with no explanation, it could be because his attention is focused on another woman.

2. He gets angry because you question him about the changes in his behavior –Cheaters will try to make their partner feel like there’s nothing going on. Getting annoyed and acting irrational when you question things is a sign he’s hiding something.

3. He’s been unfaithful in the past – The say ‘once a cheater, always a cheater’. If he’s done it before, odds are he will do it again.

4. Your sex life has gone down hill – If your previously healthy sex life has suddenly tanked, it could be because he’s ‘getting it somewhere else’.

5. He spends more time away from home than he used to – Not hanging out with each other as much is normal as a relationship progresses. If he suddenly doesn’t have time for you, when he had plenty before, he might be seeing someone else.

6. Changes in his phone behavior – He used to be open about who he talked to or who he was texting with. Phone calls in the middle of the night, constant texting, and taking their cell phone with them are signs he might be cheating.

7. You just feel intuitively that something is ‘off’ in the relationship – Learn to trust your instincts and don’t dismiss your feelings.

An interesting question to ask might be why do men cheat? You might be surprised to find out that the number one reason men cheat is emotional dissatisfaction. They don’t have the strong emotional connection with their wife or girlfriend that they desire.

Now that you know some of the signs a guy is cheating and the main reason guys cheat, do you still feel your man is being untrue? If so, you need to talk with him and try to get the truth out in the open so you can start dealing with the situation.