Hints to get back with your ex.

“It’s not you, it’s me”, “I need time”,” I need space”,” Maybe we’re not meant for each other”. These are the most common lines for breakups. Although it hurts to hear these words and you can longer believe these excuses, you can’t stop your man or your girl from breaking up with you. Maybe, the flame had gone and that’s why you have to go separate ways. But what if you realize that you still love your ex? What will you do to get him or her back?

Acting like a drama queen, pleading and begging to your man will not do any good. That will only make them more determined to break up with you. Same goes for men. Don’t give your woman the idea that you cannot accept their decision and you cannot get over them.

Constant calling would not be of help to your plan to “get my ex back”. Most likely, that would only annoy your ex and make them more determined to avoid you. Give your ex a dose of their own medicine, in the nicest possible way! You should instead, minimize contact with them to make them miss your presence. Whenever you see each other, have only a short conversation with them. Show your ex that you don’t need his or her company. That would make them miss your presence and with that they would be the one to contact you and keep your communication on going.

Make your ex fall in love with you again. Whenever your ex is around, show your qualities which attracted them to you. That way you are going to make them realize that they had made a mistake to let you go.

What will you do if your ex starts to see someone else? If your ex starts to see someone else, it’s more likely to be a rebound and most times, rebounds do not last. Sometimes rebounds are just a way to show that they have already moved on. You should not mind this and just let your ex handle it. After all, as already explained, rebound relationships don’t last long.

Think of the possible cause of your breakup. There are different causes for breakups but don’t use that cause to get your ex back. Even if you get your ex back, you would not be happy because you will just keep on adjusting to your relationship which may only lead to another breakup when you cannot be what you really are.

Go out with friends and don’t let depression or anger eat you. You should always look attractive in the eyes of your ex to make them want you again. Show them that you are the most desirable person that they can get and it is a mistake if they let you go.

If you feel that your man or girl is already slipping away from you, take steps to fix the problem. You might be lacking the communication needed in a relationship. Communication is important as it will make both of you connected and dedicated to your relationship. With proper communication, your relationship will be stronger and will last longer.