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“Infidelity In Marriage – Cheating Spouses – Do You Want To Catch Them”
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Think about this for a moment…. after long, hard hours at work for the past two weeks. Your boss calls you into their office and as you are thinking what have I done now. Your boss congratulates you on a job well done. The reward for this is; a substantial bonus and some well-deserved time off for rest and relaxation, and for the R & R to start immediately which means you only work a half a day. Knowing you have not spent a lot of quality time with your spouse. You leave work eager to tell your spouse of the great news and to surprise them with a romantic evening together with dinner, dancing and then desert. All you can do on the way home is to think about the look on your spouse face when you surprise them with the news. When you left in the morning you thought you would be working late tonight but plans change. As you pull up to the driveway you notice a familiar looking BMW car in your driveway. Not thinking much about it you proceed to the front and remember the front door is jammed and is being repaired so you go in through the back door. As you approach the back door you look up to disbelief…. you see your spouse and your best friend on the kitchen floor passionately having their way with each other, having sex. So much so they do not even notice you watching them. Cheating Spouses!

WOW…..Ok, you now have your proof. You didn’t want to believe this may be the outcome but it is. For all the time and effort you have spent on a suspicion, it has finally come to this. Proof you have a cheating spouse. How did you get to this point? What did you do to find out there is infidelity in your marriage.

You started to get suspicion when you noticed your cheating spouse spending a great amount of time on the computer when you are asleep. Or your spouse creates a new e-mail account and did not tell you anything about it. And you find strands of a different hair color on the front seat of his or her car. You become more curious when you notice a sudden buying of new clothes and under garments. These were just some of the signs that perked your interest while you started to become more observant. Then you really became intrigued when you would get phone calls at home and when you answer the phone the person would hang up when they hear your voice. You found birth-control pills or condoms when you know you cannot have children. And you noticed your spouse stop wearing their wedding ring. These are the signs that made you feel infidelity in marriage is going on within your marriage. Now it is time to be sure, what do you do?

First DO NOT confront the cheating spouse without proof, it will be hard to get to the truth without the proof. The way to get the proof is to start writing down the things you notice to be odd concerning your partner. Dates, times, conversations considering infidelity in marriage is usually based on a lie….stories will change. Review cell phone records for any repeated calls incoming and outgoing. Usually a cheating spouse will put the name of the person who they are cheating with under a different name. On that note an unfamiliar number and a phone number that is being call numerous times throughout the day, would do more to set off bells and whistles, than just a name in their contact list. The element of surprise is an excellent way to go for proof. Come home early when your spouse thinks you’re working late, or go to their office for a surprise lunch. Watch how your spouse co-workers interact with you and document what you see and if the spouse is at work or not. Are the co-workers nervous around you because the spouse is the last to know about an office affair? Set up monitor software on your computer to monitor websites visited, chat rooms entered and emails sent. And last but not least use video cameras or hire a private investigator which would be the fastest and easiest way to get the hard evidence you need. You may ask yourself if this is morally right. I say you need to do whatever it takes for your peace of mind. If you do not investigate the signs you see you will regret it if you find out later that you have a cheating spouse.

Alright, you have your evidence that your spouse is cheating. What do you do next? Either you do nothing and wait for the right moment or confront them. Remember the cheating spouse may very well deny everything until they see the evidence. Even then they will be in denial and try to blame you for their action, do not fall for that. We all must be accountable for OUR OWN actions and behavior. When you start to present your evidence, don’t show all your evidence at that time. Hold back on showing all of what you have. The reason why is most cheating spouses will create their story to fit the evidence presented and when you have more evidence then they know about then the likelihood of them getting caught in a lie would be even greater.


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