How many times have you heard people say sayings such as "the grass isn't any greener on the other side"? This saying is mostly directed toward relationship issues when a spouse cheats or there is infidelity in marriage. You love your spouse but it happens to be that temptation takes over and the line between faithful and unfaithful is crossed.

No couple is ready for this particular situation in their marriage. The heartache that follows is devastating which leads to broken trust just to name a few of the feelings to follow. Many of us have busy lives that separates us as couples for a good part of the day and sometimes weeks if there is traveling involved. So what makes a spouse in a relationship tend to wander off the faithful path?

It could be a number of things in a relationship that leads to infidelity. It could be that it's the excitement of that "new" feeling again that was once felt in your marriage. Or the sense of seeing if you still had it in you to see if you were still attractive to the opposite sex. Possibly the attraction of a co-worker has lead to infidelity. A large amount of time is usually with our co-workers rather than our family.

So when the relationship is revealed, what is the next step? What needs to be done to repair the troubled marriage? The things that need to be done now are things that should have been done throughout the marriage before it came to this point. The things that should have been done all along should have been to show your spouse how much you appreciated him/her.

A large part of the problem is taking for granted what we have in our lives and relationships are one of them. Just like anything else a relationship needs to be worked on from time to time. In order to stop infidelity in marriage the work has to be from both sides of the relationship. It is impossible to keep a sound relationship if only one side of the marriage is working to keep it together.

Tell your spouse that you love him/her on a daily basis, Don't take for granted what you have. Always show appreciation to your spouse and this will reflect back on you. Keeping infidelity in marriage away will be easier if these few tips are followed when keeping your relationship together and troublesome free.