We tend to think closure for all things are easy, however it is not. Simply because you can be ready for closure but all parties may not be. There comes a time when we have to be the mature person in the situation so we can obtain closure with whom we need to.

Closure is not about anyone but yourself, and knowing just what has happened to get you to this point in your life. Right now I and working on closure for a few different things in my life. I have managed to accept things for what they are, what they might be, and just for what has happened. I no longer what to get even, get mad, start fights, keep things going. I now know how I have hurt others, what I did wrong, how that affected all parties, and how I want to make things better.

So closure for me is really a new start on life, relationships, love, like, and family. It has opened my eyes to so many different things about myself that I never took the time to see. I noticed that as long as I blamed someone else for my actions I felt better, not until I was completely honest with my own self is when I realized that I need to fix myself first.

"You will never become who you want to be if you keep blaming everyone else for who you are.” That is what I live by these days. Enough of harping on my past, instead I'm working towards my future and my family. Righting my wrongs, correcting my mistakes, mending broken hearts. That is what is important now. Enjoying the moment I'm in, and living to the fullest in the moment.

With this closure I have learned how to be a better woman, wife, mother. All three are hard enough, once they are combined makes my path even harder. Closure has allowed me to look into my self and understand my true self. Even when things are not so pretty, flaws and all. As a mom, I know all the things that I would have liked my mom to do, so I find a way to do those same things for my twin girls. They are a challenge anyway, however I have managed to get a grip on them, so they benefit from me as a whole. Being a wife has been tough, but with closure I have found a new person within me. I just hope people begin to see that new person.