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Get Guys To Notice You
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Get Guys to Notice You

if you only want to get guys to notice you, then just follow the advice of most womens' magazines . Womens' magazines often give the same advice over and over again. “Wear a short skirt with heels”, “laugh at his jokes” and “make eye contact for 10 or more seconds”. Any of these things done in the wrong way could have him thinking you are a prostitute that is stalking him and might have a crazy laughing problem. Even if you performed all these little tricks in the 'right' way, he may notice you, but it might be for the wrong reasons. It's also pretty tough maintaining all these little actions if its not already part of your personality. And in the long run what you want is to not only to be noticed, but to be memorable.

Here's a few clues as to what will get guys to notice you and also remember you:

Work what you got in the most natural way possible. There are millions of outfits that will get you noticed by a guy. Things like overly-tight tops, super short skirts, too much make-up, outrageously wild hair will get him to turn his head. Some men genuinely like these styles. But the majority of men prefer a look that's not too over the top. You want them to imagine you as a possible future girlfriend and not as a one-night stand. Three rules to live by when dressing up are:

-Make sure you clothes have a proper fit.

-Only highlight ONE best feature of your body at a time.

-Light make-up or no make-up.

The last word about make-up is especially important. If you are wearing a lot, a man may wonder if you are trying to hide something under all that paint.

Wear a smile. As the song goes, you are never fully dressed without a smile. I asked my boyfriend what he first noticed about me and some of the other women he had ever dated before me. He told that we all had a warm smile. Even the prettiest girl will seem less approachable if she looks like she's got an angry look on her face. Guys have a hard enough job of working up the nerve to go over and talk to you, a complete stranger, after he notices you. You will make him feel a lot less nervous if he “gets the green light” from you in the form of a smile.

Present your self with grace and confidence. In other words, behave like a lady that knows herself. If your mother or father ever told you not to slouch, this is the reason why. Women that walk straight with their head up will get guys to notice them far more than any shrinking wallflower. Remain feminine in your walk and you will be noticed. If you don't think you have a feminine walk or if you're not sure if you do, don't worry. It is a learned skill and it can be taught. Grace can be taught. Even confidence can be taught. It's never to late to learn a new thing. Especially if that new skill will attract the man you want.

It's really not hard to get guys to notice you. Just make sure it's in the right way so he will remember you in the best possible way.


Street Talk

Thanks for the great article Jerusha...I like the tip you give "wear a smile" That will realy get a guy to notice you.

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  about 1 decade ago
C4rmen  

LOL I like the way you write and yr blog is pretty good too!

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  about 1 decade ago

Excellent article....really very good. I am so glad I don't have to be in the 'looking' mode. I can't imagine how hard it is out there.

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  about 1 decade ago

Jerusha, Memorable article! Thanks. I'm violating your suggestions for sure on the fit:-) I think I've about lost another size. Almost time for new still-temporary clothes. Tried on my sister's pants in a size 12 and they fit. Can't quite wrap my head around that... will soon get some that fit again... temporarily! Still on my way smaller. It's amazing how much That helps with confidence. blessings, Cynthia

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  about 1 decade ago
  

Well, you're in a transitional stage. Of course it's not as important when your body is still changing. You're doing the best you can for your health right now. The fashion can come later. But your beautiful smile, as I can see from the profile pic, will definitely take center stage. Keep up the good work, butterfly!

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  about 1 decade ago

Thank you Jerusha!

  
  about 1 decade ago
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