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How To Get Girls To Like You Using Anchoring
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How to Get Girls to Like You Using Anchoring

So you want to know how to get girls to like you or maybe you just want to know how to get more girls? If so this article is for you.

There are many different techniques that can be used to help you get girls. The best tip I can give anybody when trying to get girls is to just be you. There is no point trying to be somebody your not since if you do end up getting with this girl she’s going to notice you’ve been acting up eventually and might not like it.

With the above in mind I’m now going to explain how you can use a simple technique called anchoring to help you get girls.

Anchoring is a technique used in NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming which is an approach to communication, personal development, and psychotherapy founded in the 1970’s.

Anchoring a person (or girl) to you is a relatively simple technique to do and it begins by learning about the Solar Plexus. The Solar Plexus is a magical area of your body just below your heart and it has a radius around it of about 1 foot.

If you are talking to somebody and you touch this area you are anchoring them to you. The person may not notice consciously but their subconscious mind will. It works because this area of the body is perceived to be the centre of your being.

When you touch this area subconsciously the girl will associate whatever you’re saying at that moment in time with yourself. This gives you endless possibilities...

If you want to know how to get girls then I strongly recommend you read the below example of how to can use this anchoring technique to get girls to like you.

If you wanted the girl of your dreams to think you are funny you could do something like the following:

Strike up a conversation about a really funny television programme that was on the other night. You could say something like

You: “Did you see that show the other night on channel 1?”

Her: “Yes I did, it was good wasn’t it?”

You: “Yeah, did you see the part when…. I thought it was really funny”.

And as you say the word Funny touch your solar plexus with your hand and move it away straight after you finish saying the word Funny.

This will make the girl associate the word funny with you.

Another example, if you want to know how to get girls, could be if you wanted the girl to think you are amazing you could do something like the following:

Talk about something you did at the weekend

You: “How was your weekend?

Her: “Good thanks, how about you?”

You: “Yeah good also. I went go karting which was amazing!”

And touch your solar plexus whilst saying the word Amazing only. This will associate the word Amazing with you and probably make you sound interesting since you went go karting with some friends at the weekend.

So now you have a simple technique you can use when you’re next talking to that girl you really like. Once you've used this a few times be bold and ask her out!


Street Talk

Hi LosAngelesGuy, Your article is nicely written. Having trained in NLP my reservation is that NLP is something that should be done "with' someone as opposed to 'to' someone. Of course there are many things like building rapport that become second nature (unconscious) so I realise it's a fine line. As long as it's always approached with good intention and ecologically. NLP techniques should never be bar room games. Just my opinion ;-)

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  about 9 years ago

Hi Heather, I couldn't agree more. I learned about NLP as it was used on me in a manipulative sense. I knew something wasn't right so I began researching and learned all about it. It seems a lot of management are trained in it these days and it isn't always used for the right purposes. I don't think anything in the above post is going to cause harm however. I hope you agree.

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  about 9 years ago

That's sad to be introduced to NLP that way but I know it happens. Your article is really a branch of rapport building (and certainly anchoring as you mention) and, you're right, unlikely to cause harm. Definitely a skill to perfect... and use wisely. I did enjoy your article. Always interesting to read another angle!

  
  about 9 years ago
Caleb R.  

Does this work for long term? For instance if you anchored the word fun, but after a while you still talked in a monotone voice and other stuff. Would she still think you were 'fun,' or is used short term to build rapport while you have the chance to show value?

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  about 8 years ago
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