I don't come from much. When I was 14 months old my birthmother gave me to a local insurance sales woman that she had only known for a short period of time. Greatfully the woman that she gave me to raised me as her own. She also raised me as a single mom, and there were times when she really couldn't afford a lot, and I've taken on that role x's 2. Yes, I am a single mom currently raising 2 little men and I have to stretch my penny every way I can. Most of the things I have to manage aren't such a pain to manage with the exception of my clothing attire.

I think that a lot of single mom's would agree with me when I say that we have a lot more to compensate because we have little ones then another woman without kids.You can call it having self esteem issues if you like, but I just see it as the God's honest truth. When it comes to self presentation we have to be more on top of our game than most. Think about it if you had a twin and you were standing side by side, and a nice looking man was coming toward you, do you think he'd choose you and your kids or your twin without the kids.

I know what your thinking but believe me when I say I'm no way saying childless women are better, but as you come to know me you'll understand that I am as truthful as they come.I believe that it's way easier now to be a head turner than ever before. I've been paying attention to what most of the women my age are doing and I've realized that it doesn't take all that much.

Its easy to get caught up in the hype that to feel good about the way you look you have to spend mucho dinero. That is in no way true. Then again, Im not the one to stick to what everyone else considers today's hottest trend setting fashion. I wouldn't dare pay anywhere near a hundred bucks for a pair of jeans or shoes. I believe in staying true to whatever it is you like, not falling in with the rest of the crowd. Whatever you have left over from looking after the little people should be spend wisely, I suggest you look into second hand stores locally. You'd be surprised what you can find in those places.