You don’t believe me do you? I bet. The problem with the world today is that they’re too materialistic. We were born perfect, but we were brought into a conditional world, which has made us the way we are now. Nobody born on earth is ugly. We were all born beautiful, so if you have heard someone call you ugly, then you don’t know yourself.

I have another problem with women thinking beauty is everything in a relationship. Just because you’re beautiful doesn’t mean that you have to put others down. Just because you’re beautiful doesn’t mean you cannot be replaced. What does beauty have anything to do with love and relationship? It has nothing to do with relationship.

It’s about your mind and spirit. Having a messed up spirit will always have you in the dark. A man can a sense a good woman that there for his well being, just like you can sense in your heart when something bad is about to happen. We as human are sensors. We sense things from our heart. Our heart tells the truth, so when a man disses you and you’re beautiful, then you know you aren’t right inside.

Make up, fake eyelashes, and breast enhancement may bring you fake love, but it will never bring real love into your life. I’m sure you know this by now. You can wear the most expansive clothes and wear the tightest jeans, but if your mind isn’t right, you will never find a man that will ever move forward with you in the relationship.

Let me tell you something, the most beautiful women are women that respect themselves. Don’t go out to the club shaking your ass and think a man will respect you. Don’t think going out to the club every night will help make your relationship better. You better not go to the club wearing flip flops and think a man will respect you as a woman. You may think these are jokes, but I am dead serious. If you are doing these things, then you don’t want a real relationship, because a man will not respect you and honor you as much as a woman that didn’t do these things.

It's not about looks, but it damn sure is about your character and self respect. If you don’t respect yourself, how do expect a man to respect you? You may be saying “don’t judge me”, but I am not judging you. I am simply trying to wake you up and help you realize that a lot of what you do and go on about things plays a major part in how men look at you. If you think its cute going to the club with flip flops on, trust and believe you will meet and attract a flip flop man. Attraction comes first, then the conversation. If you your conversation doesn’t connect with his mind and his soul, there will be a wall blocking him from moving the relationship forward. Get inside his mind and work it.