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Advice On How To Love My Husband Again Even When All Hope Seems Lost
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Through time and life experiences you may find yourself wondering how you can ever love your husband again. Perhaps the two of you have grown apart over the years and you no longer have the love for him that you once had. Or, maybe a particular circumstance such as a significant change in his character has caused your love for him to fade. Whatever the reason is, the love you once had for your spouse can be rekindled.

Rekindling love will pose a challenge for you. However, with hard work and effort, it is possible for you to love your husband again. The following gives advice on what you can do to bring back the love that you once had.

  • Accepting him for who he is. The first step in learning to love again is to accept your husband for who he is. If you are constantly dissatisfied with who he is as a person, you will be unable to love him. You cannot mold people into being who you want them to be. Accept his strengths and weaknesses. This will make it easier to love him again.
  • Make a commitment to stay, for better or for worse. Do you remember those lines? For better or for worse means forever. It is so easy to walk away from a marriage. If you find that you are having trouble loving your husband, you will almost certainly walk away if you are not committed to your marriage. Stand firm in your decision to make it work regardless of what it takes. Knowing that the option to leave is not there will make it easier to learn to love him again.
  • Communication is key. Explain to your husband how you are feeling. If he isn’t aware of what you are feeling, he needs to be. Marriage takes two. This is something you will need to work on together. If you are going to learn to love your husband again, he needs to have a hand in the matter. If he understands the problem, he can do his part in making the marriage work.
  • Do not follow the pattern of society. If you look to society for answers in how to love your husband again, you will be lead in the wrong direction. Society will tell you to be independent and that marriage is a nuisance. Do not let society distort your image of marriage. Marriage is still the strongest bond between two people. When done right, marriage is a beautiful thing. Your marriage can and will overcome.

The decision to try to love your husband again is admirable. It says that you are willing to make things work. Though it may seem hard at times, do not give up. Together, the two of you can make it work.


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  about 6 years ago
hanna  

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  about 6 years ago
cassey  

i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my husband and all of a sudden, another woman came into the picture.. he started hailing me and he was abusive..but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost…then he filed for divorce..my whole life was turning apart and i didn't know what to do..he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster…so i decided to try it reluctantly..although i didn't believe in all those things… then when he did the special prayers and spell, after 2days, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn't believe it.. anyways we are back together now and we are happy..in case anyone needs this man, his email address templeofsolution@yahoocom his spells is for a better life. again his email is templeofsolution@yahoocom

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  about 7 years ago
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