All over the world countless separations and divorces have been made. It is the result of poor evaluation and problem solving of both the husband and the wife. There will always be a solution to every problem, even with the case of relationship dilemmas.

A struggling husband will always ask the same old question like “can I get my wife to love me again?” That’s quite an in-a-nutshell question because obviously the answer would be “YES!” Remember that your wife had loved you for some reason before so it’s not difficult for her to feel the same feeling all over again.

Winning the heart of your wife will always be hard if you had undergone some serious problems and troubles during the actual time of your marriage. Scan your past memories and look for certain things that made her fall in-love. Look back and feel those times as if you were still in those moments in your life. Do those things again.

Be yourself and give her compliments – giving her flowers, chocolates, surprising her with gifts, asking her out for dinner or a movie and just about anything that both of you enjoyed in the past. Now does your question “can I get my wife to love me again?” seem that mysterious? The problem with being married is that most often the husband tends to forget the usual little things he does to keep his wife happy and satisfied.

Engaging in a commitment or more likely married life is just like studying any course or degree in college. The days of courtship you had with your wife can be compared to studying grade school. And when you both get along well and decide to be in a relationship then it’s like transcending to the next level just like studying at high school. As you progress in your relationship, you then try to look at her more deeply like studying a doctoral degree.

You might not have noticed it but you are actually studying your wife and your marriage. During the past when both of you weren’t married yet; you would always try to learn more about her likes, dislikes, hobbies and more. And sometimes it can sound like stalking or whatever, but you simply wanted to know everything about her.

Don’t stop studying your wife. Continue to learn more about her and keep on getting good grades from her. Once you get married, chances are you just set aside the simple yet effective ways to make your wife happy. Your wife is your partner in life meaning, both of you must share and help each other out. Lend a helping hand that will make her see that you are still there. Spend more time with her, rather than going out with your friends. Don’t cut the cheesy but romantic lines every morning and every night like “I love you”.

And above all stay positive and don’t lose hope. There is so much to what you are fighting for, you can't just give up. Marriage is a commitment bound to last forever and both you and your partner must adhere to what you took oath with.