Cat names grand kids and listening -

We all want to be loved but how we are loved makes all difference in the world!

The grand kids may want to pull or grab the kittens ears or fur but you don't let them do that -

They have to learn that the animal has feelings too and you can hurt it - etc.

We have feelings too and needs too - each of us are different, so what we learn and how we apply it makes all the difference in the world!

When the grand kids are small your always trying to teach them some thing - like pet the kitty nice and softly, don't grab or pull its hair etc. I doesn't always work because they want to hold it or touch it - if you have a docile cat that's ok but generally the cat hides as soon as the grand kids come.

As the kids grow up they generally leave the cat alone and go on to more interesting things, or the oldest grand son helps pick the cat up and put him in his hiding place.

Which is fine with the cat!

If you were on a date and it's a first date with a gal you might want to learn a little more about her before you get a kiss, or you might be going home early, or even get your face slapped or worse -

You name cats for the strangest reasons - and we often give each other nick names for the strangest reasons.

Lets say you marry that gal you dated a while back and you do some thing that earns you a nick name and reminder of your soft spot with her or maybe its the other way around - just a thing maybe you both know and can appreciate -

Oh what was that crazy movie where this gal goes to Ireland to marry a boy friend but has all sorts of problems on the way there - any way she drinks too much and throws up on his shoes - he calls her pukee

Not a nice nick name but the do get together and get married - after all their problems - they got to really know one another in the problems to get to Dublin -

Its in these moments and memories that we often create relationships over time - hey no one that I know of is perfect but the fun is in the journey and the growing together -

Just don't forget to look at the fun things and the good things too!

FOCUS ON THE SUN SHINE BECAUSE THE CLOUDS WILL COME AND SO WITH THE PROBLEMS OF LIFE - be up beat and positive - its more fun and enjoyable that way -

Have a great day - got to go to work.

Think of a time or a mentor that you have admired - why what did they do that touched you and made yoru life better - why can't you do the same for some one else?

Have a great day and reach out and make a difference in some ones life!

Roger L Martin from Billings MT - 406 -252-4964 mdt