I know many times you have probably thought how can I really make him love me and be devoted to me? Just about all of us have thought about this at some time in a relationship. We think the man we want is our one true love. I know you have had that kind of relationship before where he was crazy about you and then he left. Now you are thinking that this new relationship will end the same way. It is reassurance that you want.

Will today be the day that his feelings will change? Will this be the day that his passion for you will die? One thing to do is to be proactive in keeping him interested. You have to be able to appeal to his mind and heart in order to make him irresistible towards you.

Always be yourself in a relationship. Be true to You! Don't lose yourself in that relationship with him. You be sure to have your own interest and your own life. A man likes to see this in a woman. Did you know that the more exciting you are the more he will fall for you? It is best if you keep certain times to be with your friends and family and be sure to have a busy schedule and if you don't have an exciting life then create one! You have your own unique personality and identity without a man and you need to develop those relationships and once you have them keep them. He will see that you have supporting friends and family.

If he thinks that you are really busy but you take out time for him, then he is going to think that he was special enough for you to have that special time for him! Whatever you do don't let him think you are sitting around on the couch in rollers waiting for him to come around or call. It mostly likely will not happen. When he knows that you have a life without him in it then he will make that call because he won't want to be left out.

Have you ever heard of don't sweat the small stuff? There was a book about this many years ago and mainly you need to do exactly that. Women tend to nitpick every little small problem in their relationship with the man they are with. You don't want him to think you are a drama queen do you? Do you nitpick with your family members? No, you love that brother, sister, cousin or whoever just as they are. So, learn to accept him just as he is flaws and all! No man wants to think he is going to have to do a complete makeover in order to be with you.

As a woman we have the power to make her man be devoted to her. You want that melt his heart connection. You can have it. You want to know those special times with you and him can happen. In your heart you want to be that girl that gets the ring. You can make him fall in love with you and be devoted to you.