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How To Make Him Commit Even If He Is A Player
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If you are madly in love with a player it will be a real challenge to get him to commit to you and only you. You are probably asking yourself constantly how to make him commit. The truth is that playing him a bit may be necessary. There are some techniques that you can use which will help you to get him and keep him.

First you will have to determine if the man that you are in love with truly is a player. Watch him closely and determine if he is looking at your body all the time instead of making eye contact. Does he always want to meet with you when it is late at night and is he always asking you to go out at the last minute? When he speaks to you, is he using sexual overtones? Does he keep it a secret what he is doing when he is not spending time with you? If the answer to one or more of these questions is yes, then you can be sure that you are dating a player. But maybe you can convince him that it is time for a serious relationship.

When talking to him about this topic, you have to do that without accusing him. The most important thing here is to tell him that you are in love with him. Let him know that what you really want is a monogamous relationship. The next step will be to ask what he thinks about the status of your relationship. At this point you must look at his reaction. Do not only listen to what he says, but try to find out also what he is really thinking.

Decide for yourself which level of commitment is comfortable enough for you. If he is a player it can be difficult to turn him into a committed man. If you can start with the first step, convincing him to be sexually involved with only you, maybe over time he can be convinced to really be committed to you. Maybe at first you still have to deal with him ogling, texting and flirting with other women. Sometimes he even does it when you are there. If you want a commitment, this can be very difficult for you.

You want to know how to make him commit? Showing him the benefits of a real relationship with you may be a good idea. Make sure that you are available to him. Find ways to entice him. Convince him that you have what he has been looking for.

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