If you want to know how to have a deep, strong relationship, let your man do the chasing! Not only does this take a tremendous amount of work and pressure off of you, but you will know beyond a shadow of a doubt that your man is ready, willing and able to begin a committed relationship with you.

One reason why you want to let your man pursue you is because when a relationship develops, he will be more serious about you due to the work and effort it took to win you over.

Not only that, but you will be able to retain a powerful equal partner status in the relationship. If a woman tends to chase after a man, the man may feel like he has more power in the relationship.

Why? Because with very little effort on his part, you are falling all over him. You are putting in more of the work and effort into the relationship and he can relax, take it easy and you will keep doing everything for him.

Another reason you want to back off and let your man pursue you is because he will probably treat you with much more respect, admiration and stay on his toes so as not to run the risk of losing you.

You may have come to appreciate the fact that the things we have to work for, we tend to treat better and they mean a lot more to us. Anything that we have vested time and effort into getting means so much more to us once we finally get it.

The same principle applies to a relationship. If your guy has to earn your affection, it only makes sense that once he finally gets what he's worked so hard for, he'll appreciate it more and take good care of it.

Another reason to let your guy take the lead is because if you think you can force a relationship and focus on nothing more than having this relationship at any cost, you will probably regret working so hard for something that is bound to disappoint you.

If your guy really isn't the relationship but you are bound and determined to force it, you may end up in a committed relationship and even a marriage one day. However, if his feelings aren't strong and he’s just not as into you as you are with him, it will be a hollow victory.

You will continue to put in all the effort, do all the work and the whole time, convince yourself that you're happy. After a while, you will fall out of love with what you wanted so badly because you're unhappy, exhausted and disappointed in the empty shell of a relationship you ended up with.

It's so much better to be with a man who puts in the time and effort it will take to get into a committed relationship with you. He'll have very real and deep emotions for you, and will sincerely appreciate the fact that he is the luckiest man on earth because he gets to spend his life with you.

While it may seem like a hard thing to do or things aren’t moving along quite as quickly as you’d like them to, try using some different strategies and techniques. But remember, when you let your man do the chasing, you will both end up with exactly what you both want in a deep, committed relationship.