Sometimes, we find it hard to keep up in a relationship, and things change over a period of time; you may be completely truthful and tuned into your partner, but something touches your partner, and the person lingers or falters. We struggle, and find it hard to cope with the relationship and stresses involved from two people. Sometimes, a relationship can become sour, empty, or you just feel frustrated all the time; lack of love and communication from your partner, where you been trying to make thingss work, trying to make a success of it.

Have you noticed in relationships, how hard it is to keep up to commitments, and there are a number of reasons why the relationship fails, or dissolves completely; maybe divorce is emmiment and maybe something can be achieved before it comes to this. We struggle and tend to lose focus in a relationship, looking for a problem or for flaws; and what has been achieved, you feel like a failure, but we are only human; we need to strive to keep the relationship alive and successful. Sometimes we struggle, and just can't cope; the stresses are due to environment and work pressures mostly, sometimes these stresses are influneced by family and friends. A relationship can be costly, and if you make sacrifices on your part, still the relationship may not get the achieving result.

Relationships are not easy, but what you have got to work with is basically this: how you met and when you fell in love, rekindle those moments, to burn like a flame, even subtly; your partner may not see the relationship anymore as once did, and you see tell-tail signs of stress, the pressures of work; maybe even infedelity and you don't even know it. You have to find another way, look for alternative answers; sometimes they don't come, or you just looking in the wrong place.

Problems come and go, we work things out; but sometimes a relationship fades and in time, things go wrong; you experience things that are uncomfortable where in the past things were good --- you look at yourself and try to imagine being parted from a storm, and how you ever going to get out of it. Or will it be possible to work the relationship out and become as good as you are at your job? Its hard to keep a commitment at all times, but if your love is strong gand you love each other, you should shrug off the hardships, like some people do, and move on.