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Breakup Prevention - If The Love Is Worth Saving Focus On Keeping The Passion Alive
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Breakup prevention is very simple and straight forward if you take the time to think about it. If the relationship you now have is hitting the rocks, and/or stagnating, you need to pay attention to want will be revealed here.

Breakups, in my way of thinking, are caused by lack of attention. In the vast majority of cases, this is the number one killer of relationships. Men and women both are guilty of this. If you stop giving your relationship the love and attention it needs to thrive, you can basically kiss it goodbye. If there is no passion left between you, the relationship will wither quickly.

If the heartache of breaking up is preventable, why would you want to suffer through it in the first place? Keeping passion alive is less work and more desirable than mending broken hearts or putting a shattered self - esteem back together. Would you agree?

Appearance wise, have either of you or both of you slacked off? I know a few very hot looking woman who stopped taking care of themselves as soon as they got their"man", wearing sweat pants all the time and not taking care of your hair is not sexy, ladies. Likewise, the majority of men, once they get their "lady", nose dive into looking like slackers. Respect each other by looking your best at all times, if possible. Do not take your appearance for granted, work at maintaining it,

Now when it comes to health and exercise, do you slack off? In order to attract a desirable mate to us, we work out and eat right to keep and maintain a great shape. But upon getting into a relationship, we let all this slide. Not A great idea. The habit of letting things slide will kill your passion for each other and the relationship will reflect that lack of passion and soon disappear.

Communication problems? If you can no longer effectively communicate with one another, get some help, and relationship advise from a counselor who understands the dynamics of relationships. Now, for a really radical idea... talk to each other like you didn't when you first got passionate to each other.

Yes, a lot of work goes into keeping a relationship from breaking up. But, I am sure you'll agree it is well worth the effort. Keep the passion for each other fired up by giving each other the attention you both need and desire. Passion is what will work toward breakup prevention.


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Lemuel  

Great article. Effective communication is very important between lovers. A woman making herself beautiful for her man, vice versa, could help a lot in breakup prevention.

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