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Communication Arguments Anger & Conflict #1
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Communication Arguments Anger & Conflict #1

Many of the troubles, in this world, are the results of anger, by people who cannot control their violent emotion, this lack of control has made our cities and town unsafe, I will try to find out how and why man kind has not been able to control his communications, anger and conflicts.

Communication

The dictionary defines communication as the act or process of communicating.

The imparting or interchange of thoughts, opinions or information by speech, writing or signs.

Something imparted interchanged , or transmitted.

Filthy communication can cause violent outburst, of emotion in most people, the tone, pitch or media if not presented in a normal way, will offend some hearer.

Anger

A strong feeling of displeasure and belligerence aroused by a wrong : wrath.

An emotion related to one's psychological interdependence of having been offended wronged or denied and a tendency to react through retaliation

Often leading to plans for revenge or punishment.

I have seen the effect of wronged manifested into revenge being displayed after thirty years, between two school boys, one being bullied, who eventually becoming a police officer. And the bully being brought to the station, booked and placed in a cell. The officer assaulted as a child remembered his tormentor, and opened his cell and assaulted the prisoner, the prisoner asked the officer what he did. The officer said, don't you remember me, the man said, no!. This is for the beating you did to me while in school.

This is an example of the tendency of people to retaliate even after a long time , this is the reason, we have so much violent crimes, people just won't let go, even after thirty year.

Conflict

Clash with someone or something.

To disagree with someone over opposite opinion.

A fight or disagreement.

An argument over which school a child should go to.

Man Verses Woman

Why can't we get along? One of the main reasons is the evolving role of men and women in the family and workplace has created confusion, on how the women acts, and the difficulties of the men to adjust to these new changes.

Gone are the days when a man was the sole provider in the family, when he made most if not all the rules. There is a new sister on the blocks, and she will have her say as an equal partner. Financial independence has created a new woman, who will not take any foolishness . Once upon a time, it was papa, (the husband) who made all the major decisions. But today, the wife ask her husband, how are we going to deal with this problem.


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Make one think.. good article Alfred...

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  about 1 decade ago

Appreciate your comment Shawn.

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  about 1 decade ago

I really like this article Alfred. You covered the points very well

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  about 1 decade ago

Nice article. Food for thought.

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Appreciate your comment Cynthia.

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Thanks Alfred .. good stuff to think about there.

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Thanks Wayne, appreciate your comment.

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  about 1 decade ago

The world would be a much better place if people would just communicate better.

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  about 1 decade ago

Thanks for your comment David.

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  about 1 decade ago

Conflicts should be resolved always verbally in a well mannered debate violence doesnt solve anything just fuel to the fire Great Article Alfred

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Thanks for your comment Jacob.

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