How Men and Women Dealing with Infidelity

The emotional response from a man or a woman caught in the act of infidelity, is quite different. I am not going to discuss the extreme cases where violence displayed, because of emotional hurt, but the basic communication response.

In the case of a woman, if she does not seek revenge, and forgive and decides to keep her marriage, she will never forget this event, she will remind him about his failure for a very long time. It is my impression, from a woman perspective, to not talk about it is emotional pain, and relief from this stress comes from talking about it, which will be a very long time. Its like the case of a nagging woman, its in the bible. But some women may say they don't nag.

Men must understand that when you display this form of weakness, you make your wife weak, so its important that we strengthen them, by being strong. Because I am sure you don't want a weak woman.

Lets look at how men deal with this same problem, if a man decides to forgive his wife, and does not spite her, he will not talk about this issue again, unless she decides to regress. For a man to discuss this issue is emotional pain, opposite to what a woman will do.

How To Prevent The Temptation

A friend of mine has just returned from a business trip in Latin America, he said, "he along with a few friends had to return to a bank after leaving his passport there. His inquiry led him to a desk where three of the most beautiful exotic women sat. He informed them what he was looking for. One said, "she would only give him his passport, if he decides to spend some time with her, or would allow her, to visit him in the Bahamas."

He looked at this youthful ,glamorous, gorgeous young woman, displaying colourful apparel, which reminded about a story that he read about pharaoh's wife, and reminisce about a time when he was single, and thought hard in his mind, and said to this attractive foreign woman. "I am a married man, and I have a daughter, they will be very disappointed in me, if I display this weakness of infidelity." His answer surprised her, but she received, it in a cool casual way.

Gone are the days when men are the ones who always, makes the first move, some women have become aggressive, and will ask for what they want.