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Most Relationships End Because Of The Lack Of Communication
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Most Relationships End Because Of the Lack Of Communication

I am a very observant person and I see the same thing over and over in everyone's relationship. There are always two sides to a story. Your side, my side, and the truth. The problem that I see that two people have are lack of communication. It takes two to start the problem and it takes two to fix it. So if only one person is going to listen why the other person is going to ignore. Then nothing will ever ge resolved.

Sometimes it takes two people to listen to one another. We sometimes forget that we are human and we get upset and say stupid things that you can't take back or you run and never come back for a week or week's at a time. How do I know this? I been through it.

Relationships can be difficult and not all peachy and creamy, I don't care who you talk to. If someone tell's you that they are doing great and their relationship is the best or never have no problems well, if you believe that, then they have plenty more to tell you.

Sometimes people just hold things in and don't like people knowing what their relationships are really like. Actions speak louder than words. Body language most of the time says it all or how someone is looking at you.

There are so many relationships that can be saved and it is a shame and most of this is because people are shallow and stubborn and it kills them to say I'm sorry. That can do more damage than good, trust me.

I cried many rivers and drowned myself over and over asking myself why? That is a question you will never know because some people just won't open up and tell you why they do what they do or act the way they do. It is frustrating to see good people go through things they don't have to.

Communication is good no matter if it is good or bad. What is good about it is you can get down the root of the subject and resolve the problem without assuming and getting fired up and adding fuel to the fire. If it gets to that, it tends to get "ugly"!

I hate when you see two people in a room and you can feel the tension or friction between them. That tells me they have some issues that need resolved and they need to open up to fix the problem. Never go to bed upset or angry. If you love each other than start each day as a new day and forget yesterday. Tomorrow may never come and then one of you will regret it in the end.

This is the problem that so many people have. They are sorry when it's too late! So most relationships can be saved if you just learn to communicate to one another instead of wasting time and energy with the things that don't matter and think of the real things that do matter.

The world is not the same anymore and too many relationships do not have to end because of the lack of communication. So if your reading this, tell the person you love your sorry or I love you just because. Be happy!


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You really have a great point. Listening is the key. To many people push their own opinion and do not want to bend. Why do people always feel that they are the ones that are right. try looking at the situation in the other persons shoes. communication is the key to a lasting relationship and I myself have been guilty of not listening on occasion. Sometimes you do not realize what you had until it's to late. A lot of people should listen to your advice here because it could benefit them before it's too late. Great article and lots of great advice. Thanks Katie.

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