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My Ex Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me - What Do I Do Now?
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My Ex Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me  -  What Do I Do Now?

It happens in some breakups. The phone just stops ringing. The texts don't flow in the steady stream that they once did. Days start to fly by after the breakup and you're sitting by the phone, but he doesn't call. The contact that you once counted on has disappeared overnight, and you can feel him escaping by the second. Your ex boyfriend is ignoring you for a reason, you just have to work out what that reason is.

You're dying for any contact at all, but unless you're channeling a Harry Potter character or have magical powers of your own, it's hard to force someone to do what you want. You don't want to force him into contact, though - you want him to want to. Realizing that he doesn't is a long, lonely process that is often just as painful as the breakup itself.

What ways can you utilize to your advantage to get him interested in you again? How can you entice him without seeming needy or manipulative? How can you get him to not only be dying to get in touch - but wanting to go out with you again?

Reasons why He's Avoiding Contact

It's natural after a breakup for your ex to avoid you like the plague. It's like being around you is a dangerous contaminant and he suddenly sees you as the Outbreak monkey. Don't worry - it's not contagious. He isn't acting like this because he suddenly doesn't love you anymore - in fact, the truth is probably the opposite. He does still have feeling for you. They're just easier to deal with once he's removed from the constant reminder of your pain.

He doesn't want to see you cry, or realize that you're hurt - he doesn't want to have to face the possibility that you may beg him for a second chance or apologize for everything you may have done wrong in the relationship. It's an awkward situation for him, and he doesn't want to be put in that position. He is conflicted on what to do, and the best solution seems to be removing himself from the situation entirely.

In order for contact to be reestablished, you need to make your ex miss you first. Maybe he hasn't yet had the chance to fully accept the loss of the relationship, and he's going through the mourning period. That is a big reason why guys will stop responding to messages and refuse to call you back. Maybe he's been keeping himself busy to keep his mind off of the breakup. Maybe he's been hanging out with his friends. Or maybe it's just that you've already been chasing him - and he's trying to get away.

You've been calling, haven't you? Leaving those messages that you pretend don't exist? Chances are he's heard them. You can't take a voicemail back after the beep, can you? All of those actions only delay any chance you have of getting back together. Continually inserting yourself in his life doesn't allow him the chance to miss you. He can't realize what he's lost if you're never gone. He needs to reconcile his feelings and come to terms with his emotions - and he needs to do this alone.

Make him Want to Make Contact

There is a common misconception among women. Most women believe that not talking to their ex will only allow him to forget about them faster. The reality of the situation is much, much different. If you want your ex to feel the void that you've left in his life with your absence, you first have to be absent. The longer you stay away, the bigger that void will become. You probably were his main source of comfort and affection while you two were together. Now that it's gone, he'll start remembering those times and begin thinking about you all over again.

Absence means completely cutting of contact, by the way. You absolutely need to stop all forms of communication with your ex. In case you're trying to think of ways around this rule, stop right there. Do whatever you have to do to make sure you can stick to your guns and be strong. Turn off your phone. Unplug your computer to avoid stalking his Facebook or sending that email you're already composing in your head.

Go out of town for a while to a place that has limited reception. Take up camping, and experience nature. If your circle of friends is also his circle of friends, try hanging out with your family for a time. He can't wonder about you if he sees you all the time - you want to become a mystery to him. The more mysterious you become, the greater the need will be for him to find out what you're up to.

How To Contact Him if He's Not Responding

If you've managed to stay strong and throw yourself into a hobby or new social circle, there's a good chance that your ex will make the first move and reach out to you. You need to be prepared for this unexpected contact and know what to say when he does show up unexpectedly.

If he hasn't taken the first step there are still lots of things you can do to take the matter into your own hands. You can use special techniques to get back in touch with him by utilizing phone calls, email or even face to face contact. Learning the do's and don'ts of these techniques are vital to their likelihood of success. If you mess up here, you could find yourself back at square one - or off the board entirely. You want to ideally improve your chances of getting your relationship back by fostering a need in his life again - a need that can only be filled by you.

If you're still uncertain of the next moves in your game plan, there is a lot of help available. It's easier than you think to plan a step-by-step guide to reversing your breakup and making your relationship stronger than ever. Don't just think you can wing a phone call and make everything all better. You want to avoid sending an email that you immediately regret because you're afraid of losing him completely. Be as well prepared as possible and avoid making split second decisions that could have negative consequences because you acted without thinking.

Next Steps

Certain ways of contacting your ex after breakup can be used to your advantage. You want his interest in you to be revitalized and new again. You want that desire he used to have for you to be reignited, and you want to get that spark back. These are proven ways to begin that process. Look out for signs he still loves you too, these will come in handy down the line when you want to know where you stand with him.

If you're guilty of making some of these common breakup mistakes, don't fret. It's not too late to stop this calamitous course of action and get started on the right path. Maybe this is why he stopped responding to you, and you need to stop before you end up making the situation worse. He'll respond positively to your new attitude when you stop making silly errors in judgment. He may even welcome your contact.


Street Talk

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  about 7 years ago

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  about 7 years ago

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  about 7 years ago
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  about 7 years ago

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  about 7 years ago

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