Flirting came easy at the beginning you began dating. Just about all words you articulated, bat of your eyelashes and tilt of your head was some sort of flirting. Whether your purpose was some kind of subtle enticement or absolute playfulness, flirtation was the communication of the day, and what an efficacious communication it was!

Whether you merely thought you had moved beyond the playful origins into a more solemn and "adult" relation or it was the reality that you felt secure in your "catch", over time, you left your flirting ways behind.

I saw "Hogwash!"

Subtle and not-so-subtle flirtation prompts your husband that you are still involved, reminds you exactly how amusing staying in a relation can be and makes him feel wanted by you. Just because you're now joined you do not have to give up playfulness and fun. The more a union feels like amusing the less it will feel like work. You may have gotten the prize you wanted but that doesn't mean you don't have to work a little bit to maintain his attention and interest.

Since you have flirted with your partner might be a while. Here are some reminders about old tricks that will make him crazy, and maybe a few new ones also.

* Play footsie with him! Sounds a little wacky but it can truly get his motor going.

* Slap his bottom. For Austin Powers worked! More significantly, it tells him you're still noticing.

* Touch him. Even non-sexual touch is a big twist on for men. Recall when you first began dating? You got any excuse only to do that. Whether it was just holding hands, laying your head on his shoulders, or touching his arm, you couldn't get enough of it. Over time, things chilled and this became casual. Make it amusing and flirty once again.

* Express him what you want - what you truly, truly want in a place where to get it he will have to wait. It'll stay on his head the whole time and the expectation will detonate actual pyrotechnics when you're ultimately able to make good on that voiceless anticipation.

* Leave naughty little notes in his lunch box. It will perk up his day and let him know that you're thinking of him.

* while he's at work send him horny text communications. Nothing exists that will have him eager to go when he gets home quicker, than small teasers throughout the day of what expect him when he arrives at the house.

* On your next date night dress to impress. Give it to him as you know what he really likes. Lets him recognize you still believe he's worth impressing and it costs you little.

You can add flirting back into your relationship even if is regarded as a lost art. This may well be the remedy if you are going through a bit of dry spell. It will bring back an aged dynamic to your relation that may yield amazing outcomes at the very least.