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When The Communication Lines Are Broken
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When the Communication Lines Are Broken

Moments of pleasure,of passion, moments of great intimacy when two bodies are entwined into each other exploring the beauty each other holds trapped in their bodies,embracing each others universe with emotions that surpass time itself. This is a moment when the world is shut out. It is a moment when the best of concentration is needed and attention to details are very necessary because each person knows what they are going for. They want the best feelings to come out of this great moment and each is striving hard to make it work at all levels giving the best touches, the best kisses and the best of the best of what they have. This is simply a beautiful experience.

Time passes and the feelings and touches seem to become less and less prominent.Everyday the yearnings of pleasure felt are never compensated like before.This only gets worse as days go by. The days go by and the nights come and where there was warmth this has been replaced by cold emptiness. The hugging and kissing have died down only to be replaced by a few good night kisses to say "I'm here"and then each person turns the in different directions.

Almost some, if not all relationships tend to meet in the circumstances described above. Especially with married couples and those living a love relation. It is not a surprise these days to find in on-line forums and social network site that the frustration of loss of that intimate connection with the loved one is being poured out in words and writing in great numbers by men and women. Women especially are the ones that seem willing to come out and tell everything as it is.Men on the other hand seem not to care so much because as usual men tend to think that everything is under control.

Yes many years together in a relationship can wear down intimacy a lot simply because both partners know each other so well as they each are entirely committed to the relationship and feel so secure about each other that the tendency is to think that all is well and that nothing can go wrong. Nothing goes wrong on the surface because on the surface everything looks well. A good job, a nice house, mortgage payments are regular,holidays are spent traveling. But while on the surface all is well,deep down in each others heart the couples know they are not communicating intimately enough or are simply not communicating at all.

If couples have engaged themselves in a lifetime commitment then communicating intimately should also be a lifetime committment and should continue as long as the relationship continues. It shouldn't be for a few years but a complete life time "lets share it with each other" affair. This means that loving,kissing,hugging,caressing and romancing should be part of everyday life no matter the circumstance in which couples find themselves. Couples should not be too stressed or too preoccupied to forget about communicating intimately.

Couples should also be able to communicate sincerely with each other, their desires, their wants and their needs. They need to open up to each other sincerely and not hide anything with the excuse that what they have to say might be of no importance to the other partner.

These might be tough times for everybody as there is crisis everywhere, but don't allow your intimacy to fall into a crisis otherwise there will be too much crisis. if you've fallen out,get back on the track and rekindle the love and the passion that used to burn in your relationship. Start communicating intimately again.


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