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3 Great Tips On What To Do To Get Your Ex Back
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Having to experience separation from the one you love can be really devastating. It becomes even worse if the one who took the decision to break up was your ex. You will probably end up repeating in your mind everything that your ex said to you, trying to figure out what was the reason for the break up and what you could have done to prevent it from happening.

If you feel that you are not ready to let go of your relationship but you don’t know what to do to get your ex back, then this article will show you how. It is an easy guide that will help you win your ex back. All it takes is a bit of determination, the will to succeed and of course, self-confidence. Although your situation may seem hopeless you should know that statistically over 80% of couples do get back together after a break up, so here is what to do to get your ex back:

Lay Back And Wait

Ironically the first step in winning your ex back is not to do anything. This means that instead of doing what your instincts tell you to do, you should do the exact opposite. So if your instinct tells you to run around after your ex pleading them to come back, stop and instead, cut all communication for a period of time. This will give the both of you the necessary amount of time in order to heal from the break up. Plus, it will give you the opportunity to analyze your relationship and figure out what needs to be changed.

Let Your Ex Come To You

Once you have applied the first step, your ex is sure to wonder why they are not getting any attention from you anymore. Your ex will feel intrigued about the fact that you are doing the exact opposite of what they expect you to do and it will spike their curiosity. Don’t be surprised if you get a call from your ex and asked to meet. At this point your ex wants to know what you are doing and why you didn’t come chasing after them. Part of winning back your ex is to let them want you back. Once this happens the next step should be applied.

Be Cool And Relaxed

When you’re ex calls you, don’t act all excited and happy that they called you. Instead act nonchalantly and give short, precise answers but make sure you meet them. When you meet try to bring back that person your ex fell in love with. Act natural and be positive, don’t open the subject of breaking up under any circumstance. Your ex should be the one to do that. Once that happens don’t let your emotions control you. Instead, stay positive and try to work things out with your ex.

If you do that you will soon discover that your ex will be the one begging to have you back. To get your ex back isn't as difficult as you think.


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