Would you believe that dating someone else could help you reconnect with your ex-girlfriend, if I asked you to believe that?
Probably not, on faith. However, I'm about to explain to you in this article why dating other people can help you get your ex-girlfriend back after a breakup, even if it's a very messy one.
(Yes, even messy breakups are repairable.)
Here's the rundown on why dating other women will help get your ex back...
1. Reverse depression.
Dating other people while you're going through the breakup period will help get your mind off the worst part: depression.
Everyone is depressed after a breakup. Breakups are horrible experiences, and horrible experiences tend to send us spiraling into depression. Guess what? Depression is a huge killer of reconciliation, which is the process of getting your ex-girlfriend back.
By taking the courageous steps to start dating other people, or even going on ONE date, you are advancing in the right direction towards getting your ex-girlfriend back.
Why? Because you're proving to yourself, and to her, that you are capable of moving on - and that's what she wants to see.
2. Improve self-confidence.
One thing that women find irresistible is self-confidence in a man. This is why rich guys, celebrities, and even that guy you go to class with who seems like a complete loser has such success with women.
Dating other people while going through a breakup will not only get you out of depression, but it will also make your self-confidence skyrocket.
When you go on a date with someone else, you'll see that you're still capable of living your life. You might even make a new friend (or potential love interest). You'll get to experience the feeling of fun that you've been missing for so long by suffering from post-breakup blues.
3. Get your mind off your ex.
If you've followed the guidelines for the no contact rule which is an important part of the breakup/reconciliation process, then you'll know that you NEED to get your mind off your ex.
It's absolutely vital for your own sanity that you get out of the depressive cycle and get out there, dating new women, while you're waiting for your ex to come around.
If you don't, you'll slip back into old patterns and bad habits faster than you realize - and then it will be more difficult to get your ex-girlfriend back.
I highly advise dating other people while you're going through the process to get your ex-girlfriend back. You don't have to commit to anyone long-term; you're still interested in your ex, after all.
But it's important for YOU, as a person, to see that you can still get women interested in you. It's important for you to get out of the depressive cycle so that your ex-girlfriend will find you attractive again, and you can fully begin to reconcile your relationship.
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