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If you are reading this it probably means you are going through a difficult time with someone you cared a lot about. If you’re feeling kind of hopeless, I am here to give you some good news. There is always hope for getting back with your ex boyfriend, all you need to do is to keep reading

The first thing you need to do now is to start taking control of your emotions. When going through a painful break up all sorts of emotions come up and you feel tempted to act according to your instincts. Acting in this way is not always a bad thing, however that doesn’t apply to break ups. So sit back and try to control your impulses. Once you have done that, you’ll be ready to apply these five very simple and highly effective steps to getting back with your ex boyfriend:

1. The most important step - don’t lose hope.

If you are tempted to give in to depression, remember every day there are many couples that get back together no matter what the situation.

2. Agree with his decision.

If you are still trying to fight the break up, it’s time to stop. As long as you refuse to accept it, you won’t be able to start working towards getting back with your ex boyfriend.

3. Stay strong.

No matter how heart broken you feel don’t let your ex see that. Your ex will not want you back out of pity. Trust me. A guy never falls for a girl he feels sorry for. Plus, you don’t want him to be back with you only because he feels bad for you. That’s worse than the breaking up part!

4. Don’t chase him.

Going nuts trying to call him every hour telling him how much you miss him will only make him avoid you. Instead, limit contact as much as possible. This will give him the chance to miss you and it will work to your advantage.

5. Focus on other things.

Although this may not seem as much, it’s actually very useful. Dedicating yourself to a new activity will help you feel like you have gained control over your life again and you will miss your ex less. This will also make your ex feel like you are moving on and most guys react to that

If you follow these few steps, not only will the break up be less hurtful, it will help you on your way to getting back with your boyfriend. Keeping yourself occupied will make your life a whole lot easier. Never losing hope is key. So be confident and don’t let yourself be ruled by negative emotions.

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