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Can My Ex Boyfriend Be Made To Love Me Again?
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Can My Ex Boyfriend Be Made To Love Me Again?

One of the more stressful experiences in life is going through a breakup. Breakups will take a toll, both emotionally and mentally, even if it was an easy breakup. You most likely will be feeling hurt, confused, anger, guilt and despite these feelings, you're unable to get your ex-boyfriend out of your mind.

Even though you know things won't quite the same anymore, you keep asking yourself “can my ex-boyfriend be made to love me again?”.

That is an interesting question to be asking yourself, and the answer may surprise you. It can be done, but you'll have to understand you'll have to be willing to do whatever is necessary and whatever it takes.

No two people are alike, that is a truth most of us know, but that truth also extends to relationships. All relationships are different, each have their own unique dynamics. You probably know your boyfriend quite well, therefore, you'll have to make the following advice work in the best way you can to benefit yourself, your boyfriend, and of course, the relationship you both share.

Most, if not all, relationships share a common denominator, and that is, it takes two people to make them work.

Agree?

You may be blasting away at your boyfriend for breaking up his relationship with you, but, here is a small twist for you. While there are two people involved in the relationship, you can only change one, and guess who that is? Your right...you!

Since your the only one who you have control over, it stands to reason that you should start off by taking care of # 1 first. So for now, you'll need to break off contact with the ex-boyfriend, so as to keep your thinking clear of him.

Agreed, you'll miss him and want to be with him, but at this juncture, you both need space to be alone. And if you keep bothering him, you'll end up pushing further away.

This time alone away from him, is your time to work on yourself. Although your question “can my ex-boyfriend be made to love me again” is a good question to ask, you need to love yourself first. Important steps in that direction will be to hang out with good friends, take care of your health, and just live your life.

Once you're able to think more clearly and feel better, you need to analyze the relationship in order to find what really happened. This sounds easy, but it can be difficult and needs to be done first. Most of us only look at the surface of things, but these are just symptoms of issues that lay deeper.

Arguing, is a good example what I mean, arguing isn't the problem, the problem is whats causing the arguments. This first step is not always easy, but if you want to fix your relationship, you have to fix what is actually broken.

Once you done these things, its time to get your ex-boyfriend back. Contact him and let him know you want to sit down for a face-to-face chat with him. Take you time, never feel rushed and stay calm and positive. If you want a positive answer to the question “ can my ex-boyfriend be made to love me again?”, do things the right way, so that you achieve positive results.


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  about 5 years ago
Juliana2  

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  about 6 years ago
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  about 6 years ago

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  about 7 years ago
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