Getting back with your ex-boyfriend can sound like it would be extremely difficult, but it doesn't have to be. Your friends may tell you that you are making a mistake by trying to get back with him, but if you are certain that he is the one for you, then don't give up. You certainly can get back together with him, if you are prepared to try.

Firstly, make sure that he will notice you when you are out, and if you happen to end up in the same place. Whether it is getting a new haircut or wearing something that you know will catch his eye, looking good is an important part of getting him back. It may sound shallow, but it is probably what made him notice you in the first place, so don't disregard how important your appearance can be.

Don't rush into trying to get him back straight after the break up - both of you need some time to think about what happened and why the relationship ended. Don't try to contact him during those first few weeks; allow him time to start missing you. This means you will be more likely to succeed in your efforts to get him back.

You may want to tell your ex just how much you miss him, and that you still love him, but to begin with you should resist this temptation. Telling him about your feelings, when he is probably still uncertain about his own, is going to push him further away. You don't want to intimidate him, so instead of telling him how you feel, just try casually chatting to him. Let him get used to talking with you again.

If the two of you do decide to give the relationship another try, you should take it slowly. Go out on dates and get to know each other again. Yes, you may think that you already know everything there is to know about the other person, but both of you will have changed since you first met. Many relationships have problems because those changes are either not noticed or ignored, so make sure the two of you are able to communicate. This will be one of the most important aspects when it comes to making it work.

If you are certain that you want to get back together with your ex, then go for it. You can have a relationship with him after a break up, so don't be afraid to try.