Is it really hard to deal with a break up? Or do we make it harder than what it seems? I guess this is one of those themes where you can be right or you can be wrong depending on where you are standing. Depending on the type of person you are has a lot to do with how you are going to react, also your formation and your belief.

Young people for instance have a very hard time dealing with this problem. The main reason is lack of experience which makes harder for them to accept a breakage of this magnitude… Of course it can happen the same way to adults if they did not have many experiences with relationships.

I know a few friends that marry their high school sweethearts and live happily ever after BUT I know this other group that were not that lucky and dealing with this break up is the worse thing that had happened in their lives. Some of them work it out and some others fail miserably at the attempt…

I guess just being on a relationship is not as easy as we think. At the beginning thing seem to be perfect with the person we chose to be our partner and then little by little day by day after the magic is gone and believe me when I say this because that has happened to every single person that has ever been in a relationship. Not being able to deal with this could lead to a break up.

Have you ever seen a kid when they get a toy that they really want? How happy and excited they are? And for a while they are too busy for everyone else, a new relationship does the same for us. I don’t care if you are a male or female.

What is going to keep that relationship alive is the love that grows from the relationship itself. How much you put into is how much you will get in return. Put a little, get a little… Put a lot and you can be set for life with the perfect person.

Understanding what love is can be complicated sometimes. It can be or mean different things to different people but at the end there are some basic steps that everyone needs to know and if you follow them I can guarantee that your love life will be much, much better.

There is a reason why older people are so nice and smart, They always told me to find someone that is really nice and it’s fun to hung out with, maybe someone that likes the same activities you like, basically a cool buddy and excellent friend of the opposite sex. Remember to be smart and especially patient when dealing with the one you love.

We learn something new every day.