Sometimes if a relationship doesn’t work out and your partner decides to break up, it is best to just move on. But what happens if you are convinced that you found your soul mate and you don’t want to end the relationship? If you find yourself in such a situation it’s time to cheer up and do a bit of work to get your ex back. But what to do to get your ex back? If you have no clue about it then continue reading.

The majority of people think that in order to get their ex back they need to do the most complicated things or that they have to plead and beg their ex to reconsider. This is far from the truth. If you are wondering what to do to get your ex back I am here to tell you that all it takes is a bit of knowledge about psychology and applying that knowledge. Here is what you need to know:

Desperation Is NOT Sexy

This applies to you as well. If you find yourself thinking that by begging your ex to come back and chasing them around will ensure success, then you are sorely mistaken. Your ex will only run away even further if you do things like that. What’s worse is that if you go on telling your ex how much you love them and miss them, they will feel that you are too desperate and have no self esteem. So take a deep breath and relax. You need to let your ex search for you and chase you not the other way around.

Humans Want Most That Which They Cannot Have

This is a trait that has been deeply implanted into every human’s instincts ever since the Stone Age. This means that you have to make yourself look unavailable to your ex. Your ex is used to thinking that you will always be around just waiting for them to give you the needed attention. If on the other side you stop giving your ex attention and act like you don’t need them, you will immediately become someone that your ex can’t have anymore. Once that happens, your ex is bound to start doing everything possible in order to have you back.

Knowing what to do to get your ex back and how to use these two specific psychological traits of human nature will help propel you to getting your ex back. Just make sure that you don’t do the chasing. Let your ex chase you.