If your girlfriend just broke up with you, your heart is aching. You're thinking about all of the things that could have been done differently. But before you let emotions take over, stop and take a deep breath. Don’t lose your mind. You have every chance of getting back with your girlfriend if you take action with these four great techniques.:

1. Finding Out Why She Left

This is the first thing you need to do in order to have a chance of getting her back. You should let her know that you still have feelings for her but you need to give her some space. This will not only make her feel that you respect her but it will also give you the opportunity to find out what went wrong in your relationship. Really dude, take this time. It’s important that you really give some though to what happened. It will only help.

2. Knowing What She Needs

Although you may not have a clue about that, the most basic thing women desire is a man that can support them unconditionally. Know that a woman would never leave a relationship unless you neglect her needs are not satisfied. These needs might include: security, the need to feel loved and appreciated, sexual chemistry and excitement to the relationship.

3. Working The Self

You probably feel like bag of you know what. But you need to be confident just like you were when you and your ex were first dating. If you can make her laugh and feel good every time you see each other, that image of yourself will be imprinted in her mind and she will feel attracted to you again.

4. Knowing The Right Time

You need to know when you should be open about your feelings and when you should maintain distance. If you met a few times and you were able to flirt that means it is time to let her know you still have feelings for her and that you can talk about the reasons why your relationship didn’t work out.

Getting back with your girlfriend is not rocket science. If you are able to understand about the basic needs of your woman and to push certain female psychological buttons, your girlfriend will come running back to you before you know it. All it takes is a bit of self control and a lot of confidence and you will make her realize you are the man that she needs.