If you want to get back together with an ex boyfriend, don’t worry, it can be done. Many women have successfully managed to get back together with an ex and enjoy a long term relationship.

In fact, sometimes these relationships are stronger as a result of the break up and subsequently getting back together.

Be honest with your ex. The two of you will need to discuss your relationship and what went wrong if you are going to try to get back together.

This may be a painful, difficult conversation to have, but if you are going to move forward in your relationship, it will have to be done. In order to get back together successfully, you will both need to be able to talk about the problems you had and work together to resolve them.

Another thing that both of you will need to do is accept that the other person has changed over the course of the relationship.

Get to know the person he is now, and help him to see who you have become. Not realising that these changes happen is often a major cause of conflict within a relationship, yet it can be resolved with some time and effort from you both.

If you do decide to give the relationship another go, then make sure you both carry on doing the things that are important to you.

Not having time to do what you want is going to cause resentment in the long term. Keeping up with your own, individual, hobbies will mean you maintain your independence while being in a relationship, and this is partly what will have attracted him to you in the first place.

It is also important to keep taking care of your appearance. Everyone gets lazy when they have been in a relationship for a while, and stop taking as much care over what they look like.

However, make the effort and remind him why he fell for you in the first place. For any relationship to work in the long term, you both need to remain attracted to one another.

Treat yourself to some new clothes and make sure you show off the parts of your body that you know he admires the most.

You can get back together with your ex, if the feelings are still mutual and you are both prepared to work at the relationship. It may not be easy, but it may be the most worthwhile thing you do.