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Get Back At Ex By Being Nice - 4 Ways To Get Back At Them With Kindness
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Dealing with an ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend can be accomplished in many different ways. Some people are rude and vindictive because they want their ex to feel and and suffer. And there are those who choose to be nice in order to get back at their ex. If you are a person who chooses the high-road by being nice, you will be perceived as being a better individual by doing so. If you are attempting to get back at your ex with kindness, here are four ways you can do it.

Send them Flowers

The ultimate kindness is of course, flowers. We send flowers as a gesture of our love or as a way of telling them we consider them a good friend. So send them flowers to take advantage of this friendship factor. Choose yellow roses, or flowers that are less romantic, this way you are showing no remorse, but also, no romance.

Ask About Their Love Life

When you inquire about your ex's love life, you make them feel awkward, but asking is a successful way of getting back at them using kindness. You do not have to be nasty about this, just show that your concerned about how they are doing and any relationship they happen to be in. By asking nicely, they will not think you are trying to be vindictive or evil.

Act Happy for Them

When you are going to get back at your ex, act happy for them. Be nice, being happy for the things going on in their life and achievements they have accomplished. Now what this is going to do is create confusion for your ex, because they can not figure out why your happy for them. Your ex is expecting you to hate them, so even a fake happiness toward them will throw their minds for a loop.

Introduce Them to New Flings

Introducing your ex to your new love interests is an interesting way to get back at your ex using kindness. The introduction does not have to involve rudeness or be vindictive. Just let your ex know you want them to meet who you are dating. You just want them to get to know one another. Now, this could possibly bring out jealousy, as well as, curiosity from your ex. It is just as simple easy way to get the ex jealous of you having a new relationship and this jealousy is how you get back at your ex.

You need to find the middle ground between hanging onto your self-respect and getting back at your ex. And the only way of attaining this balance is using kindness to get back at them. Using kindness to get back at your ex prevents them from saying bad things about you, they can not hate you or trash talk about you either. Simply by being nice to them you are getting your revenge without giving them reason to forget you.


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