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He Has Got A New Girlfriend - Is It Really Over?
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He Has Got A New Girlfriend  -  Is It Really Over?

So he has got a new girlfriend. Maybe you ran into them together, maybe you heard through the grapevine. Whatever way you found out that he has someone else, it is never easy to hear. Do you want him back? Then you will have to handle things in a specific way and control yourself. If you act bitter or jealous you could end up pushing him away entirely. That is why you have to do things properly.

Give Him And His New Relationship Space

The last thing that you should be doing when you find out that he has a new girlfriend is to wade in and lay down the law. Of course you are angry and seething about his sudden interest in someone else, you don't understand how he could move on so fast. You have to remember that the way he sees how you handle it is crucial to your chances of getting him back.

You need to give him space and let him know that you are mature and accept his new relationship. Realistically, what else can you do at this point? If you tell him that you are hurting and that you want him back he is not going to appreciate it. He is not going to just dump his new girlfriend either just because you snap your fingers. I wish that it was as easy as that but the reality is that you have to bide your time and make him realise things on his own.

Take yourself away from them if you possibly can. The last thing that you want to be doing is to see them constantly in a state of bliss whilst you are in agony. Do yourself a favour and have a low profile during the honeymoon phase of their relationship. It will help you to formulate a plan to get him back that will be successful, it will also ensure that you don't make any blunders that push him towards this new girl even more.

Contact With Your Ex Boyfriend

Contact with your ex boyfriend at this stage is a definite no no. You do not want to get his new girlfriend on the defensive and cause suspicion. You have to respect his new relationship even if you think that it is a joke. If you are sly and call him she will only pour poison in his ear about you and make him not trust you either. Trust is crucial if you are to get him back and make him open up to you again.

If you are still on speaking terms or friends with your ex boyfriend, you will have to contact him, but the best way to do this is through email. It is less personal and will not raise suspicions. Keep the subject matter light and never mention your old relationship or his new girlfriend. You should never ever say anything negative about her either because this will only make him jump to her defense and make you seem bitter and jealous. He has to come to the realisation that she is not right for him by himself.

If you've kept your cool the next step is right around the corner. You clearly can't rely on email forever - and your ex is going to start to push the boundaries. He may surprise you with a phone call when you least expect it - and let him know that it's okay. Don't be over-excited or gleeful but stay upbeat and keep the conversation light. The more comfortable he is talking to you, the more he'll be willing to do. You've already become a part of his thoughts again and that's where you want to be.

When He Asks For Your Advice

If your ex-boyfriend starts turning to you for help, you're almost in the home stretch. If he's looking for advice, give him the impartial voice of reason that he's looking for. Once he realizes that he can count on your discretion and your wisdom he will even start talking about his new relationship and discuss its ups and downs. Listen intently because you can use this information to your advantage eventually. For now, let him talk it out and say whatever he needs to say and listen without judgment.

He trusts you now, and pretty soon exchanging messages is going to be superfluous. He's going to ask for a get together at some casual out-of-the-way establishment that won't encourage gossip that may get back to his girlfriend. He may be cautious at first, but his initial hesitation will vanish once you show him that you can bring things back the way they used to be. You laugh, joke and smile and start to realize that your connection is growing naturally and it doesn't need any assistance to help it along the way.

Take Things Slowly And Pay Attention

The time to initiate a shift in your friendship back to a romantic relationship is right around the corner. Make sure that you're listening to what he says - and paying attention to signals that go deeper than words. You should be returning any flirtation in kind. Once you connect physically you're going to experience a spark explosion that is more intense due to the nature of the situation.

While you're getting closer all the time you need to recognize the fact that sleeping with your ex-boyfriend too soon could put the rest of your plan on hold. Exhibit some major feats of self-control here and hold your ground. Be content with the time that you two are sharing (for now) and start looking forward to the not-too-distant future when he's ready to leave his girlfriend and begin again with you.

Your Next Steps

To get him back there are a few more things about male psychology that you have to make yourself aware of. Making him want you back is a big part of this. He has to see that he has made the wrong choice and that you are the better option. There are techniques to make this happen, you just have to have the willpower to stick to it.

You should also make sure that you know how he really feels about you. He might be giving off signs he still likes you without even knowing it. Be on the look out for these to know what your chances are.


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