Your girlfriend left a few months ago. You know in your heart that she's the one. You knew it the minute you met her. It feels hopeless at times but you can't seem to convince your heart to give up. How long should you keep holding out hope? How do you know when it's time to give up on getting her back and move on with your life? Is there a time limit on love?
It's not easy being on the receiving end of a breakup you didn't want and didn't see heading your way. But once you get there you don't have many options available to you. You can either accept that it's happened and make a decision, however painful it may be, to move on or you can decide to fight to save your relationship and get your girlfriend back. But, before you go waging war on the heartstrings of your girlfriend you need to think long and hard about whether or not that's really what you want to do. More importantly, you really need to take the time to sit down and figure out WHY you want to do it.
Even if you do fight to save your relationship or get her back, there may come a time when you must face the possibility that success will not be coming your way. Some relationships just aren't mean to be. In fact, you may be better off apart in some cases than together. But how do you know when it's time to let go of your plans and give up on your relationship? You never want to admit defeat or face the fact that you may not be able to save your relationship. But at some point you may have to face the fact that it's time to give up on the idea that you'll be able to get your ex back if you try hard enough.
Sometimes it really is over. But when should you let it go? And, how do you know when you've reached that point?
There are no rules that say you ever have to let it go and move on. If you love your ex girlfriend you don't ever have to stop loving her. You will reach a point though where you need to either learn how to put that love on a back burner so that you can move forward with your life or make a concentrated effort to get your girlfriend back for good.
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