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How To Attract Him Back After A Breakup
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How to Attract Him Back After A Breakup

Everyone makes mistakes in relationships and if you feel like you’ve pushed him away somehow, don’t be discouraged. There is a way to get him back.

How to attract him again and make him want you back

One of the most important things to remember when you’re trying to get a man back is to make him miss you. This means that you’re going to have to stop pestering him with phone calls and text messages. Being around him all the time and nagging him into coming back to you won’t make him realize just how special you are in his life. On the contrary, he’s going to start thinking that this breakup is actually a good idea if it means getting away from you!

Be like Houdini

A little disappearing act would do wonders for you. After all those phone calls and nagging you suddenly stopped and disappeared. At first he’s going to be relieved because you finally stopped pestering him.

Then he finds out that you’re busy with your life, trying to move on, doing things you love to do. That will make him respect you and though he hates to admit it, he’s going to start feeling uneasy. After all, you’ve been his girl for a long time and you’ve established deep feelings for each other. He may start to wonder if you’ve gotten over him so quickly.

But you don’t have to disappear forever. Once you feel you’ve given each other some space, start worming your way back into his life. Catch up on things and start slow. He might be more than happy to hear from you after your disappearing act and deep down, he’s also relieved that you still want him to be a part of your life.

Don’t be a witch

It’s tempting to dabble into the dark arts and make your man pay for hurting you. You turn into this vindictive woman who deals with her pain with anger. But being spiteful won’t change things. Don’t forget, you’ve done things to push him away so you can’t really be mad at him for wanting some space.

Instead of wasting all your energy on anger, try to put it behind you and focus on smiling and letting him know that you understand. You’re not going to attract him if you always look like you’ve just sucked a lemon. Being emotional and needy won’t help you either. No, if you want him to come back then you can’t let him know just how angry and lost you are.

Learning how to attract him back doesn’t have to be complicated. Sure, it’s going to take time and a lot of patience. But what you mostly need is willpower and a lot of determination. Just remember to stay positive and don’t let your anger and hopelessness get the better of you. He wouldn’t want to come back to a nagging and weepy woman so you’re going to have to work on your attitude.


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