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How To Attract Your Girlfriend Again – 4 Ways To Win Her Back
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How to Attract Your Girlfriend Again – 4 Ways to Win Her Back

Your relationship went sour and now you want to know how to attract your girlfriend again. You want to win her back but you just don’t know where to start and if she would even give you the time of day.

Not to worry, when it comes to “how to attract your girlfriend again,” here are a few tips to keep in mind.

How you were then

Did you change a lot during your relationship? Change isn’t bad – unless you changed for the worse. You got so used and familiar to the relationship that you often took her for granted and stopped being the sweet and sensitive guy she fell in love with.

The things that women like in a man don’t really change. If she broke up with you then it means that you’ve changed a lot and she doesn’t appreciate it. You stopped being the man she fell in love with and became this total stranger to her. What you need to do is find out how you’ve changed and how you can be the man she once loved.

Don’t make things worse

Sometimes, when a woman says “it’s over,” it’s not really a permanent thing. Give her a few weeks and she would be back once she’s cleared her head. You don’t want to make things worse by feeling sorry for yourself and acting all desperate and begging her to come back to you. When a woman breaks it off, sometimes what she really needs is just some time away from you.

If you want to attract her again and make come back then you need to give her space. You’re not going to get ‘boyfriend points’ if you keep nagging her to come back to you and turn into a stalker. You’re only going to make things worse if you don’t take a step back.

Learn a little patience

You need to prepare yourself with the fact that she’s not going to come back to you the very next day. As mentioned, a breakup isn’t always a permanent thing. You need to be patient and give it time instead of moping around or getting drunk.

Don’t show her just how upset you are and don’t keep asking her when she’s coming back. She’ll come back when she’s ready – or when you’re more emotionally stable and sane. You both have things to work out and that’s going to take some patience so don’t waste your energy trying to speed up your reconciliation.

Don’t turn into a playboy

You may get her attention if you start flirting with other women. She may start to feel jealous if she saw dating around. But you’re also playing with fire.

How to attract your girlfriend again doesn’t mean you have to play games and make her feel bad about breaking up with you. She already does feel awful but she needs to be away for a while. Don’t put salt on the wounds and make her feel worse because then, this temporary breakup could just turn into a permanent one.


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