Losing your boyfriend can be very painful and difficult to cope especially if you genuinely loved him. Forgetting the sweet memories is even more difficult. Worse still, it’s wrenching to discover you lost him to a close friend or someone you know or even someone you consider not his type. Your relationship may have been one that was full of love and there was not a single inclination that a break up was on the way. It could be that you broke up because you messed up somewhere and now you are sorry about it. Whatever could have caused your relationship to fall apart you can try a very simple method of getting back your boyfriend through text messages.

When you start texting, always remember that you are trying to win back a heart that has been stolen by someone else. First thing is to relax and calm down. Yes you want him back now but you would not want to make a stupid move that will make him move away even further. Once you are in your right senses you can start sending text messages to get your ex back. Start by sending out subtle messages like saying ‘hello’ and generally wishing him a good day. Try this like twice a week. Trying to rush things will not in any way get your ex boyfriend back.

Don’t forget winning your ex-back needs tact, hence move things slowly.

If he has not responded, then send a text asking him a question you know he will definitely answer. You know your ex boyfriend so well that crafting a question that warrants an answer is no big deal. Most likely he has some of your items. Ask him when you can go get them. Whichever way he responds, don’t through tantrums. He may respond by requesting you to get them from a place far away from him. That’s okay. Go pick them and thank him. You also may have some of his stuff. Request to drop them at his place. The whole idea here is to be discrete. You are going to get back your ex boyfriend back without him getting a hint that you’re trying to do so.

Don’t hold on to your past.

It will not help at all. Sending text messages that remind your ex about the past will just make him distance himself from you. The past painful experiences should be left out completely. To get your ex boyfriend back you have to start on a clean slate. When he has started warming up to you, write about what he would like to hear. For example if he has allowed you to go to his place, look for a topic regarding what he likes most such as a favorite game. Remain focused and before long you’ll get back your ex boyfriend.

Avoid looking desperate.

This might make him dislike you even more. To get back your ex boyfriend should not make you look so needy. Your ex boyfriend should be able to see beyond the text messages that reflect your considerate thoughts. You will get back your boyfriend when he sees there’s something special behind the text messages.