A couple of years ago, I had a friend who was constantly talking about her ex boyfriend.

Wherever she was in some social talk, she used to say how her ex used to be a nice man who could take her out to great places, enjoy great meals together, and have that fantastic love experience.

However, the unexpected happened. Her guy slipped off her grip! According to how she used to talk about him, it was obvious that she wanted him back for real. As a close friend I thought of a way by which I could help her win her guy back.

As I talked to her she narrated to me how they got along well in the initial stages.

Then in the course of it all, something fell through the cracks and the guy opted to leave.

The first thing we did was to get the cell phone number of the guy as we believed communication would do a credible job. It all depended on the type of words she would use in conveying her mess age.

And this is what is important for everyone in this kind of situation. If you have the right words to say to your ex, and you use the right method to convey them, you will eventually win him back.

Many books have been written about this subject of winning your ex back.

However, the buck still stops with you. Whether we give you a point-by-point strategy on how to do it, you still need to do the application yourself and this is very important because in the end it's you and him.

Therefore, get your words right and give him a shot. You can send him a short message as this is the safest way to crawl into his heart and reawaken his feelings for you.

Conveyed in the right way, short text messages are often rejuvenating and uplifting. As in the case of my friend, it worked wonders and now they are back.

You can as well use this method provided you play your cards wisely to avoid what he might consider a confrontation or nagging on your part.

Choose your time of delivery carefully; it works best when the recipient is exhausted after a long day's work, or early in the morning to kick-start his day in a positive and invigorating way.

If you ex boyfriend responses you early, then you are on the right track to get your guy back. However, you should not feel bad if he doesn't reply you back or you reply you after a few days. In both cases, you should to write a hand-written letter describing the beautiful moments you both spent together.

This is one of the best way to get your ex-boyfriend to like you again.