How To Get Your Ex Girl Back
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You have just broken up with your woman and now you feel really bad, since you were seriously interested in her, but with this breakup it just seems that the world is falling over you and you are so desperate in having her back. You think she is the only person in your life, and you don’t feel like starting over again with a new woman after having shared so many emotions and feelings together. Which are the chances for you of getting her back. Remember that everything in life doesn’t occur just like that, but surely things often go the way you want them to go. If you just sit there hoping she will come without you trying to do something about it, chances of getting her back will be very low.

First of all just as you have broken up you should give some time and let things be for a while. You both are surely emotionally down, so some time to be distant in order to think about the overall situation is not bad. After the atmosphere slowly cools down given some time you should start to contact her again, but only after you have fully understood what is the primary reason for which your relationship took this hit. Did you do something wrong and so it was your fault, or were there any signs that you had perceived from your woman, that she was losing interest in you for some reason. Ask yourself the question “why”, since nothing in life happens without a reason, and that is where you have to fully focus on understanding and correcting.

After you feel relaxed sometime after your recent breakup, you can slowly try to reconnect with her by texting first, and telling her that you miss her, and especially if you admit to having done something wrong to excuse yourself. Never talk to her in a desperate manner while trying to reconnect, since the more she sees you desperate, the less chances of getting her to change her mind you will have.

Instead just be more friendly and act in a playful manner, possibly talking about some of the past things you have done together and times of happiness, since those good memories are positive experiences, and so do your best to make her remember the most precious times that you have shared together, and slowly after you understand that she is in a happy and relaxed mood while talking to you, just give it a try and ask her out. She may not accept your date, but one thing is for sure, if you ask her out while she is in mood and seems more relaxed and talks with more easiness to you, chances of her accepting your invitation will surely be higher.

Once she eventually accepts seeing you again, keep that day flirty and easy going. Never start talking about the reason of your breakup on your first day out, but rather wait at least another couple of easy going meet-ups in order to not risk in getting in a tense and conflictual atmosphere to early. Once you have a better clue that in these days that you have dated, she feels encouraged and more likely to want to share moments with you again, you can go on and talk about the reasons of your past breakup and with easy talk and reasoning, try to forget and put behind these unhappy moments, and force yourself to get your relationship back to the best moments you have shared with her previously.

If instead even with reasoning you are not able to get along as before and you understand that she doesn’t feel anything for you anymore, it just seems that you both weren’t meant to be together.


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