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How To Win Him Back After A Break Up – Now You Can Left Your Terrible Break Up Pain
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How to Win Him Back After A Break Up – Now You Can Left Your Terrible Break Up Pain

Breaking up is never easy to do. If you're coping with the aftermath of a crumbling relationship, all you probably want to know is how you can turn back time, see your ex again, and win him back.

The trouble is, your emotional state after a breakup can leave you prone to making rash decisions. Decisions that not only won't help you to win him back, but can actually hurt your relationship prospects in the long-term.

If you're struggling with ideas for how to win him back after a break up, make sure you avoid the following mistakes:

1) Stay away from the green-eyed monster.

Jealousy is never a good feeling. A lot of women try to flaunt new relationships in front of their exes as a way to get back at them and make them feel jealous, in the belief that this will make them realize that the breakup was a mistake.

Unfortunately, that usually just has the effect of making these women look lonely and desperate to be in a relationship, which isn't terrible attractive.

As a worst case scenario, choosing new partners irresponsibly can lead to even bigger problems, like STIs and unwanted pregnancies.

2) Don't contact your ex (and that includes your mutual friends).

It's very easy to succumb to the temptation to spy on your ex, but that's not going to help you figure out how to win him back after a break up. At best, you won't find out anything. At worst, you'll find out something that's only going to upset you, and might even make your ex feel stalked.

3) Don't totally reinvent yourself.

It's always a good idea to make a few little updates to your lifestyle after a breakup-- it can help you feel in control of things, and give you a new energy and enthusiasm you might be lacking.

It's never a good idea to try to turn yourself into the kind of person you think your ex wants. Some women begin dressing too young for their age, and feigning an interest in things just to try to get their exes' attention.

Don't fall into that trap, it isn't going to help you win him back.

4) Don't try to have the last word.

It's really tempting to believe that if you could just explain things to your ex, it would make everything better.

Unfortunately, the reality is that that's much more likely to end up forcing you and your ex to argue about your breakup again.

If you want to know how to win him back after a break up, you need to leave the breakup in the past and stay hopeful for the future.

In a lot of cases, knowing how to win him back is as simple as knowing what not to do. Breaking up doesn't have to mean goodbye, but a lot of couples stay broken up because they inadvertently end up driving each other away.

Don't let that happen to you and your ex-- avoid these mistakes, and you will on the right path to win him back after a break up.

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