My boyfriend just broke up with me and right now all I want is to get him back. I've tried everything I can think of to make him take me back and nothing is working. What did I do wrong? What can I do differently to win him back? Is there a chance at all for me to get him back?

These questions are quite common among heart-broken women around the world. There are few feelings on the planet that are worse than being dumped by the man you love. But, does being dumped by your boyfriend really mean that your relationship is over? That's the $24,000 question isn't it? That's the question that's keeping you up at night dreaming of the happy ending you'd been planning with your boyfriend and trying desperately to come up with new ways to get your boyfriend back. The problem is that getting your boyfriend back is going to something a little more subtle than what you've been planning all along. Maybe it's time that you switch tactics and approach this from a new angle altogether.

Instead of working at a fevered pitch to save your relationship and get your ex back it's time to do something new: nothing. Yep. You read that right. It's time to let your silence ring louder than Sunday morning church bells. He needs to hear your silence loud and clear. Why? So that he can really get a sense of what life is like without you. Stop doing his laundry and cooking him food. Stop being the one he calls when he doesn't have anything better to do. Stop doing these things so that he can really start to miss you. Don't call, text message, email, or visit the places he frequents. Don't run into him and don't let him run into you. It's not about playing games. It's about making your absence felt so you can get your ex back.

Use the time you're apart wisely. Do things that make you feel better about yourself and more confident in who you are. When you do this, he will notice when he sees you again. You see, there are few things that men find more attractive in a woman than self-confidence. When he sees how much your self-confidence and sense of self-worth have grown he will be truly impressed. It's one of the biggest changes you can make in yourself that will get his attention in a great way if getting your ex back is a priority for you.