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Im Still In Love With My Ex But I Think Its Over Forever
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You have realised that you are still in love with you ex, but you are not together anymore and feel like you will never get them back. You need to stop being a pessimist and start to think like an optimist. There have been many relationships that may appear that they are over, but the reality is that people find a way to get back with each other.

Before deciding to try to get your ex back, think about your previous relationship with them - is it really worth saving? Far too regulary, relationships that should not be re-ignited are, with drastic consequences. Think hard about how it was - were you emotionally or physically abused? Obviously, if you answered positively to this question, it is imperative that you accept that this kind of relationship is best to leave alone. You should look at repairing your self-esteem and move forward.

On the other hand, if you answered no to this quesiotn and your relationship was simply a falling out, misunderstanding or maybe a loss of trust or respect, then you are in for some good news. By finding the right direction to pursue, you can completely recover this relationship, even if only one of you wants it.

If you have come to the realisation that you are still in love with your ex, then it would appear that your relationship was indeed very strong. If you are saying that you are still in love with them, then they more than likely have the same feelings towards you.

Wait for a few weeks after the break up with your ex, then give them a phone call and ask them whether you can catch up with them. Make it sound really casual and do not make it sound as though you are desperate to meet up with them.

Organise your get together some place that is on neutral ground. You do not want there to be any temptation to create an emotion-filled scene. Take your time working out exactly what you are going to say to your ex in this meeting as it is an important step in getting them back forever.

You should have prepared yourself and really worked out why you want your ex back. You have come to such a wonderful realisation, so you need to have everything clear in your mind. You are still in love with them, so you will need to be able to explain to them the reasons why they should take you back.

Think about things like your future together. What do you want with your ex in your future life together? Do you have dreams and aspirations of your life together? Express these to them in a well thought out manner. You do not want to your ex to be the main focus of your life. Also, do not put yourself in a position where if they don't agree to getting back with you, that your dreams are ruined. The last thing you want to do is to appear needy and desperate to get them back. You simply want your ex to know that you belong together and that there realistically is a place for them in your life.

The final thing you need to do is to wait. Give your ex plenty of time to think about what you have said. Let them put forward their thoughts and listen carefully to what they say. Taking a positive and confident approach to getting your ex back and following the information given, should ensure your ex will be back in your arms and come to the same wonderful realisation as you have.


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  about 7 years ago

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  about 8 years ago

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  about 8 years ago
Diana665  

i want to share my life experience to every body on this site. i am in a serious relationship with phillip i love him so much we have dated for almost 6 months now. until he meant another girl called susan he told me that he is no longer interested in dating me any more. i was so confuse i don't know what to do so i told my friend about what my love just told me and he told me that she can solve my problem i was doubting her how can that be possible so she directed me to a spell caster called Dr Ishvara of ishvara temple .so i contacted him and i explain every thing to him and he told me that my problem will be solved within 24 hours if i believe i said OK .So he cast a spell for me and after 24hours my love came back to me begging me on his knees on the ground asking me to forgive him. And I was surprise just like a dream and today Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body in case there is anyone out there that have such problem should contact him on ishvaratemple@yahoo. com

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  about 9 years ago
Thanks3  

I had doubts about magic spells but after i met Dr. Wicca, my story and my life turn around. I have tried different casters.. Some of them never answered me after I paid and were obvious scammers, some really cast a spell but for some reason it didn't work. Then I saw a video on you tube with a person who was mentioning she had results with Dr. Wicca then i decided to give spells a try. It's probably the best decision I ever made in my life because it worked and my girlfriend came back into my life and i have a good job now and its a great thing he did in my life. If you're looking for a good spell caster look no further, Dr. Wicca surpass all other spell casters, believe me! Email him on dr.wiccahightemple@gmail. com or facebook. com/wicca.temple Frank, USA

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  about 9 years ago
Jasmin4  

This is a testimony that i will tell every one to hear. i have been married four 6years andon the 7th year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me andmy husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 3years until i met a post wherethis man Dr Osaze have helped someone and i decided to give him a try to help mebring my lover back home and believe me i just send my picture to him and that of my husbandand after 4 days as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was myhusband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one ofyou in similar problems to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. Hisemail:spirituallove@hotmail .com

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  about 9 years ago

Hello,everyone my name is mlmvc from USA i never ever believed in spell until i meet a man called Dr upesa, who help me cast a spell that bring back my ex-lover who left me for one years before our marriage,His spells works beyond my imaginations and today i am happily married two kids and me and my [ex-lover] now husband are very happy more than ever before,what more can i say rather than to say thank you Dr upesa for been there for me,contact him today and your life will never ever remain the same his email is upesaspelltemple@gmail.'com"

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  about 9 years ago

Hello,everyone my name is mlmvc from USA i never ever believed in spell until i meet a man called Dr upesa, who help me cast a spell that bring back my ex-lover who left me for one years before our marriage,His spells works beyond my imaginations and today i am happily married two kids and me and my [ex-lover] now husband are very happy more than ever before,what more can i say rather than to say thank you Dr upesa for been there for me,contact him today and your life will never ever remain the same his email is upesaspelltemple@gmail.'com"

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  about 9 years ago

Hello,everyone my name is mlmvc from USA i never ever believed in spell until i meet a man called Dr upesa, who help me cast a spell that bring back my ex-lover who left me for one years before our marriage,His spells works beyond my imaginations and today i am happily married two kids and me and my [ex-lover] now husband are very happy more than ever before,what more can i say rather than to say thank you Dr upesa for been there for me,contact him today and your life will never ever remain the same his email is upesaspelltemple@gmail.'com"

Reply
  about 9 years ago

Hello,everyone my name is mlmvc from USA i never ever believed in spell until i meet a man called Dr upesa, who help me cast a spell that bring back my ex-lover who left me for one years before our marriage,His spells works beyond my imaginations and today i am happily married two kids and me and my [ex-lover] now husband are very happy more than ever before,what more can i say rather than to say thank you Dr upesa for been there for me,contact him today and your life will never ever remain the same his email is upesaspelltemple@gmail.'com"

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  about 9 years ago
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