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Make Partner Love You Again: Especially When The Relationship Has Gotten Stale
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Make Partner Love You Again: Especially When the Relationship Has Gotten Stale

Is your relationship getting a bit stale or are the two of you drifting apart from each other? Many couples yearn for the romance that they used to have but have a hard time getting motivated to take steps in how to make your partner fall in love with you again. This is not unusual in a mature relationship. If you feel that you would like to do something about it; then you should read on to help make your partner love you again.

When you first had met there was some spice and excitement in the relationship. Your partner probably couldn’t keep away from you, like a magnetic attraction. The question is what were they attracted to? What was it that contributed to your gal or guy to fall in love with you in the first place?

Take some time to think about all the fun and romantic times that you had together. How did you act and what did you do to catch your partners love? It is really hard to answer the question why someone loves another person. It is not necessary to know the exact answer but to get a feeling of how you were when you were happy and in love.

Many couples fall in love because of how they feel about themselves when they are with each other. Each partner gives the other partner a special feeling and this feeling is most likely different for each person. It is not always that easy to pinpoint this magical feeling but try to think about what your feeling was. If you were successful being able to express what that feeling was then ask your partner the same question.

Find a moment where the both of you have time to talk without any disruptions. Get into a sincere conversation and just ask what they felt when you first fell in love. If you are able to tell your partner what it was that you felt, then it can help your partner to respond. Don’t worry if your partner can’t immediately respond. Just remember, you had needed the time to think about it as well.

If your partner does respond to your question on how they felt about you, then it is time to work on getting that feeling back. Let us look at some examples. If they thought you made them feel sexy then you should think about how you could act to make her feel that way again. You might say nice things, or notice how good they look in an outfit or you might do nice gestures to impress them. Or if your partner felt that you gave them the feeling of being worthy then try to adjust your behaviour to make them feel that way again. Sometimes we get into a behaviour pattern and tend not to work on the feelings of our partner. We are often too busy to notice that the relationship is drifting apart. Your partner maybe heartbroken and want to get you back in love as well.

The trick is to find out the feelings of your partner and what to do when you know what it was that started the romance. If you find out what it was then you have it in your hands to rekindle the love again. Just ask your partner how they felt and take it from there since this is the start of making your partner love you and to want you back in their lives again.


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