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My Girlfriend Says She Hates Me – Is There Any Hope?
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When your girlfriend is throwing around words like "hate" they can hit with the full force of a concussion grenade. Every time the dreaded word comes out it feels like a dagger stabbing straight into your heart. It's one of the toughest words for a man to hear from the woman he loves. But, should you take it at face value? Hate is a strong word. Most people really cannot muster the full force of emotion that goes into a word like "hate" – especially not against someone they loved only days, hours, or even moments before. Love and hate may have a thin dividing line but even this line isn't THAT thin.

To make a long story short, YES there is hope if your girlfriend says she hates you. But that doesn’t mean there is a quickie fix or an instant solution. There are problems that need to be addressed if "hate" is one of the words being wielded like weapons in your relationship. But, where should you even begin to repair the damage when you feel like you're walking on the edge of a very thin line and that any day she could call the whole thing off?

The best place to begin is in the mirror. Is there anything you're doing that could be seen as provocation by your girlfriend? Are you pushing her out of her comfort zone? Are you taking actions that seem confrontational to her? If it isn't what you are doing; how about what you aren't doing? Are you taking every opportunity to acknowledge her contributions to the relationship? Have you told her lately how much you NEED her in your life? When was the list time you said the words "thank you" to your girlfriend? Things like this are small but they mean so MUCH to her. They can also be the perfect start to the conversation that leads to a second chance for your relationship.

Your girlfriend says she hates you but that doesn't mean she does. There's no reason to believe that's the case – especially if she hasn't walked out on you yet. Every day that you stay together is another opportunity for you to win her over again.

You have an advantage. You've done this before. You know what to do to sweep her off her feet. If you make one small move to sweep her off her feet and make her heart melt for you every day that you're together, she'll be flinging words of love and affection rather than hurling insults and "hate" your way before you know it. There's no better way in the world to get your ex back or save your relationship than this.


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Hi am miss Julianna from Philippine and am here to thank, praise and share my good experience with this DR UDUEHI of uduehisolutiontemple@yahoo com, i got married at the age of 27 to the man i loved and we were both living together and when i was 29 i gave birth to a baby boy for my husband and we both thank God for the child. but when our marriage was 8 years old my husband was been transfer to work in Canada which is another country and just within two month of him been there i called my husband and a lady pick up the call and i tried as after my husband and she told me to go to hell and that was how this evil lady took over my husband and even week ends when he come to Philippine he don't even ask after me nor the child so i know that my husband was been captured by a devilish woman and i started looking for solution every where . so my friend from Africa refereed me to this man DR UDUEHI at first i must tell you friends i never wanted to work with the man but when i notice there was nothing i can i decided to contact the man on his email because i cant go to his temple as am in Philippine and when i told this man my problems i was very surprise when he said to Julianna your husband will come for you on Friday and to my best surprise after some few sacrifice to his temple on that Thursday morning and when i got to work on Friday i received a call from a strange number to my best surprise it was my husband and that was how Dr uduehi help me to win back my man with his love spell and today am happily living with my husband Mr Santos . so i ask the Dr uduehi of uduehisolutiontemple@yahoo com how do i pay you for this he said no to and ask me to share the good news to the world so others can also hear and benefit so this is why am doing this .love you all

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  about 9 months ago
Thanks  

Am am Erica from the united state of america am here to testify in the name of this great man who has brought back happiness into my family after my lover Samuel left me for good 3years for another woman,i really loved Samuel because he was my first love i tried everything within my power to get Samuel back to my life but people i meant just kept on scamming me and lying to me,Then normally on Saturdays i do go out to make my hair and get some stuff,Then i had people discussing at the saloon if they do listen to there radio well,That there is the program (how i got back my ex)And started talking much about Dr ikuku how this man has helped lots of people in bringing back there lover,So immediately i went close to those ladies i meant at the saloon and i explained things to them they said i should try and contact Dr ikuku that he has been the talk of the town and people are really contacting him for help immediately we searched on the internet and read great things about Dr ikuku i now got all Dr ikuku contact instantly at the saloon i gave Dr ikuku a call and i shared my problem with him he just told me not to worry that i should just be happy,He just told me to send him some few details which i did,And then he got back to me that everything would be okay within 36hours i was so happy then Dr ikuku did his work and he did not fail me,My lover Samuel came to me in tears and apologized to me for leaving me in deep pain for good 3years,So he decided to prove that he will never leave me for any reason he made me had access to his account and made me his next of kin on all his will,Now the most perfect thing is that he can't spend a minute without seeing me or calling me,Am so grateful to dr ikuku for bringing back the happiness which i lack for years,Please contact dr ikuku for help he his a trustworthy man ikukutempleofsolution@gmail. com or cell Number +2348034458597

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  about 1 year ago
Thanks3  

I had doubts about magic spells but after i met Dr. Wicca, my story and my life turn around. I have tried different casters.. Some of them never answered me after I paid and were obvious scammers, some really cast a spell but for some reason it didn't work. Then I saw a video on you tube with a person who was mentioning she had results with Dr. Wicca then i decided to give spells a try. It's probably the best decision I ever made in my life because it worked and my girlfriend came back into my life and i have a good job now and its a great thing he did in my life. If you're looking for a good spell caster look no further, Dr. Wicca surpass all other spell casters, believe me! Email him on dr.wiccahightemple@gmail. com or facebook. com/wicca.temple Frank, USA

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  about 1 year ago
Thanks  

My name stave fisher i am a doctor i live in USA i had a problem with my wife so i did my possible best to please her that she going to live me that we can not have children that i am not man so i told her that i love her that we can make thing work i told her that we should go and do this test and surprised she was the one who had the problem so were look for solution,i was contacting a lot of fake spell they scam me i was tried of my life so i was reading the newspaper when i saw a testimony by a woman that this man help so i was try to get the woman when i now saw the the woman now told me that my problem is over when i contact this man i tough she was joking when she now told her friend story how this man help her to have children of her own so i now told my wife we now this to contact him so the next four day a man who also have a problem of his wife that left him for 2year now,when he now contact this man this man help him to get his wife back and now they her happy he give is testimony on the television so now contacted this man this man now told that it is God that give children that he is going to pray for me and my wife after he had pray for me the next month my wife was pregnant i was happy i now told him he was happy for me i now i want to tell the world this man is a man sent by God to come help people,i thank you every much for help me so if you are in need of is help contact him on this email ogogodutempleofsolution@gmail. com or call him on this number +2348078999655 thank the great ogogodu you are different from all spell caster thank you for help me name:Dr Stave fisher country :USA

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  about 1 year ago

I want to tell everyone on this site that Dr.Zabaza brought back my lover within 48hours and you can reach Dr.Zabaza on zabazalogan@yahoo. com or call him on +2348182620374 So that you can also get your lover back within 48hours.

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  about 1 year ago
Thanks  

My name Elizabeth i want to give thanks and i will always give thanks to Dr igbalu who brought back my love that has left me for 6years within 48hours, i have said about this last week but i promised to always tell people about this every week end so that those that did not read about it last will read about it this week, i have been looking for how to get this boy back to my life because i love this boy with the whole of my heart, i could not replace him with any body,one day i was watching my television when i saw a lady giving thanks to Dr igbalu and telling the world how he helped her i was so shocked i could not believe it because i never taught that there are powers that can bring back lost love, then that was how i decided to contact him too because i do really need my love back,when i contacted him i told him everything and he told me not to worry that my love will surely be back to my arms within 48hours at first i could not believe because i was thinking how could somebody that has gone for 6years come back within 48 hours,so then i decided to watch and see,unbelievable within the next 48hours i got a call from unknown number so i decided to pick the call the next thing i could hear was my loves voice he was pleading and begging me on the phone that i should forgive him that i should forget all that have happened that he did not know what came over him,he promised not to leave for any reason, that he was really sorry for what he did,i was so surprised because i never believed that this could happen,so that was how i accepted his apology and the next morning he came to my house and still pleading for me to forgive him i told him that everything is okay that i have forgiven him, that was how we started again and now we are married, i promised to say this testimony in radio station, commenting this testimony is still okay but before this month runs out i promise to say this in radio station and i will,sir thank you very much.World please am begging you people to try and thank this man for me,or if you need his help here is his email address:igbalutempleofsolution@gmail. com, you can still contact me through my email to know more about him.this is my email adress:elizabeth100morgan@aol. com. Name Elizabeth Country USA

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  about 1 year ago

I am still surprised on how Dr.Zabaza was able to get my lover back to me within 48hours, The thing that surprises me most is that she now committed to me like never before. While what do i have to say than to thank God for making me come in contact with Dr.Zabaza. Contact Dr.Zabaza on zabazalogan@yahoo. com or call +2348182620374 UNITED KINGDOM

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  about 1 year ago

Dr Charles is a powerful man that bring back my husband our love is stronger than ever and my family is happy ...Dr Charles don't forget about you he always keep in touch make sure all is well after a stress full time with a woman turning my husband away from me. Dr Charles is to thanks for the smile on my face and his wonderful work . If you need his help, contact him via his email address. drcharlesspelltemple@gmail. com...................deby

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  about 1 year ago
julia6  

i told my boyfriend to take a week space from me to sort out his feelings. i was hopeful that things would work out as he was always telling me that he loved me and had strong feelings for me. but all of a sudden he said that he wanted to be single and had doubts about our future together. i did cry but i did not beg him to stay. i said sorry for any hurt i had caused him and thanked him for showing me love. very hard but i did it with as much dignaty as i could. but i never understand why he dont want to stay with me. but before he left he told me i am irressistable, lovely warm person etc but he just want to walk away from my life. the pain was awful. our getting together was fateful and we found out our birthday both 1st june. he is 43 and i am 44. it was weird. i thought we were made for each other. he deleted my numbers but i never let go of him. i wanted him back but he has made up his mind so i had no choice but to look for a way to get him back so what i did was to look for a spell caster to help me get back my lover fast as possible, when i came across prophetharry@ymail. com, so he did a love spell for me and the spell came out perfect, my lover reconciled with me and we came back together and since then we have been in peace and the lover is flowing perfectly julie

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  about 1 year ago
gladys  

My testimony all thank to DR.MAGBU i was in love with a girl named Nicki i was in deeply in love with her i have tried my best to get her, on till i meant this man named Dr Magbu i explained eventing thing to him, he told me that my problem is solve but i ask him how is that possible, he told me that i should not worry again that my problem is over than he cast a spell on her to come back to me to my surprise she come back to me in 4 days after the spell has been cast. She is in love with me so i am very happy she is back to me thank you can contact him if you need your ex back EMAIL:reunitingexspell@gmail .com RE UNITING EX SPELL TEMPLE IS REALLY GREAT

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  about 1 year ago
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