This Article is About
woman 3
broken marriage
3 things
look at it this way
having an affair
passions
knitting
common sense
destiny
emotions
feelings
passion
attitude
marriage
My Husband Is In Love With Another Woman - 3 Things You Can Do Right Now
Join 1000's of Authors at StreetArticles Today!

My Husband is In Love With Another Woman - 3 Things You Can Do Right Now

If you're finding yourself lamenting that "my husband is with another woman," you're in a difficult situation.  Learning how to get your husband to be interested in you again, and subsequently dealing with the emotions and struggle of a broken marriage, requires time and effort.  Here are 3 things you can do to approach and deal with this problem.

1. How can I get him to be interested in me again?

While it might seem contrary to common sense, getting your husband to be interested in you again after he's having an affair with another woman is actually dependent on your actions, not his.

You have to change your own actions, and take charge of your own life.  Look at it this way: your husband has decided to turn his attention to another woman, so you no longer owe him anything.  You can do what you want now. 

When you take this attitude, you will become more authoritative and attractive.  People are drawn to those who are free-spirited, or who do what they want.  If you start doing the things you want with no regard to what your husband thinks anymore, you will automatically gain his interest.

2. How can I deal with the pain?

It is painful to know your husband's fallen for someone else, but know this: often we think we're in love with someone, when in reality, this feeling results from an unmet need within ourselves.

Your husband is probably infatuated with this other woman because she's new and exciting and gives him feelings of passion.  But you can respark that passion within your own marriage once you start to live your own free life, doing the things you want.

This doesn't mean neglecting family or the kids or anything; it just means taking charge of your destiny.  You don't have to think of yourself as sacrificing everything for what other people want of you. 

Make a list of your hobbies and passions.  Take steps to get involved in them - even if it's as simple as painting, crafting, knitting, whatever you might be interested in.  But don't do anything just because you think it's expected of you.  Do what you really want to.

This will have the side benefit of distracting you from your husband's affair.

3. Will we ever reconnect and have that spark again?

Yes, you can have the spark of passion back with your husband, but it's dependent on you.  He has lost interest, so you must be the instigator.

Start by pursuing your own interests and passions.  As time progresses, he will gradually lose interest in this other woman, especially if he sees you doing what you want to do.  (While this may not always be the case depending on the marriage, it's often true that couples just lose the spark because one of them isn't happy.)

When your husband's interest in you starts to return, it's very important that you continue to live the life you want, doing the things you want, so that he'll see you as the object of his desire. 

 


Street Talk

This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me....My name is maria cooker ... My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called papa ork who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace,she testified about how papa ork brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop papa ork e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give papa a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. papa ork is really a talented and gifted man and i will not to stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great papa ork today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact: orkstarspell@gmail. com Thank you great ork. Contact him for the following: (1)If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3)You want to be promoted in your office. (4)You want women/men to run after you. (5)If you want a child. (6)[You want to be rich. (7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8)If you need financial assistance. (9)Herbal care 10)Help bringing people out of prison Contact him today on: orkstarspell@gmail. com

Reply
  about 4 months ago
Clara34  

I had my long distance relationship for almost 4 years now, Our relationship was okay and good, but for some reasons I couldn't understand My ex boyfriend broke up with me for almost 3 weeks now, and it me sad, frustrated, devastated having mix emotions to face the reality that he doesn't want to work it out anymore, I dint know what else to do until i search and bumped into this testimonies regarding Love spell and i read some of those who had the same problem i had and until i found Dr. Alex who can cast spell to bring your partner back at first i was hesitant to do so but eventually i tried his power to cast spell bring back your partner back because of his kind hearted, generosity He did Help me and i am so happy about it. Thank you so much Dr. Alex you May contact him here (solutionhelpcentre@gmail. com) or call him on +2347036013351

Reply
  about 7 months ago

I don't know if anyone reading this article is maybe in need of some spell caster or you want to try using a spell, i will be honest with you contact Mutton Osun cos he is the only one i can say know a lot of stuff about casting spell.I mean he helped me a great deal but i most warning you, you gonna be needing materials or sometimes lot of materials for the spell and the materials are not that expensive.And believe me he doesnt ask you to pay for his services.Contact him through here godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

Reply
  about 8 months ago

Add a comment I am carissa from USA, i want to share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my husband, i love him so much we have been married for 6 years now with two kids. when he went for a vacation to France he meant a lady called Marian, he told me that he is no longer interested in the marriage any more. i was so confuse and seeking for help, i don't know what to do until I met my a friend of my and i told her about my problem. she told me not to worry about it that she had a similar problem like this before and she introduce me to a man called Dr.swami from indian who cast a strong spell to bring him back to her after 3days. then my friend ask me to contact Dr. swami. I contacted him to help me bring back my husband and he ask me not to worry about it that he is going to bring him back to me within 3days. He also told me by three days he will re-unite me and my husband together. After three day my husband called and told me he is coming back to sought out things with me, I was surprise when I saw him and he started crying for forgiveness. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth for what this great spell caster did for me and my husband, you can contact Dr.swami on any problem in this world,if you need any restore in your relationship contact Dr. swamitemple@yahoo. com He is the best spell caster i have ever seen.

Reply
  about 8 months ago
Sarah29  

I want to share this testimony of how I got my husband back, I was married to my husband for 3 years and we had a child , things were beginning to change for bad when my husband began to go out with other women and was also clubbing excessively. We were separated for two years till a friend introduced a spell cast man to me in a matter of days after he cast a spell for me to get my husband back ,I got my husband calling me and pleaded for me to take him back and we are back now and he loves me so much now that he can do anything for me . If you are facing any situation like this kindly contact SOLUTIONSPELLTEMPLE @ GMAIL. COM I know you will find help with him.

Reply
  about 10 months ago
Sarah29  

To all those who still do not believe in spell powers, I was just like you, all I did was to "TRY" after seeing several posts about SOLUTIONSPELLTEMPLE @ GMAIL. COM, but now I am happy I did because SOLUTIONSPELLTEMPLE @ GMAIL. COM helped me get back my ex, I thought I can never have my lover back to myself,but SOLUTIONSPELLTEMPLE @ GMAIL. COM told me I had nothing to worry about that I will have my lover back in exactly 2 days after he cast a spell for me. I am really so happy because he really brought my lover back to me.

Reply
  about 10 months ago
Sarah29  

To all those who still do not believe in spell powers, I was just like you, all I did was to "TRY" after seeing several posts about SOLUTIONSPELLTEMPLE @ GMAIL. COM, but now I am happy I did because SOLUTIONSPELLTEMPLE @ GMAIL. COM helped me get back my ex, I thought I can never have my lover back to myself,but SOLUTIONSPELLTEMPLE @ GMAIL. COM told me I had nothing to worry about that I will have my lover back in exactly 2 days after he cast a spell for me. I am really so happy because he really brought my lover back to me.

Reply
  about 10 months ago
angelina6  

I m ANGELINA from RUSSIA,My ex lover now [husband] is back and we are happily married with kids and i m here to gave thanks and appreciation to Dr MAXI the spell caster of maxispelltemple@yahoo. com for all the time He stood by me,for all the truth He make me see,for all the happiness He brought into my life,for all the wrongs He make right,for every of my dreams He make come through and for the help i found in Him,i am grateful and thankful unto Him,He was the one that helped me all,He never let me fall,He was the one that saw me through it all,He was .my source of strength when i was weak,He was my voice when i couldn`t speak,He was my eyes when i couldn`t see,He saw the pain wasn`t good for me,He lifted me were i couldn`t reach,i m everything i m today because You helped me,i m so happy my husband is back in my life at last,His email is maxispelltemple@yahoo. com,A temple were sorrows are dropped and happiness is gain in return.

Reply
  about 11 months ago
angelina6  

Hi, I am JOLLY MENX from Germany,I just want to say thanks to Dr IRABOR for taking time to help me cast the spell that brings back my ex lover{now husband},who suddenly lost interest in me after six month of engagement,but today we are married with kids and we are more happier than never before,Thanks to Dr IRABOR for his help,he deeply enjoy helping people achieve their desires, find true love,getting their ex lovers back,stop abusive relationships,find success,attract happiness,find soul mates and more,contact him today. and let him show you the wonders and amazement of his Love Spell System work,He deliver results at his best in real spell casting,email iraborspelltemple@gmail. com for relationship matters.

Reply
  about 11 months ago

The Amazing Works Of Dr. relief. Hi everyone, I am victoria lynn, from London, Uk. I want to share my testimony, with the whole wide world, on how i got my ex husband back to me within 48 hours by the help of an amazing and powerful works of a great spell caster and spiritualist>relieftemple@gmail. com. Here is my story. After 9 years in marriage with my husband, Steven . He divorced me and got separated from me and my kids, and left home to another lady. I did all i could to get him back, but all proved abortive. Until one faithful day, an old friend of mine that have worked in the same company with me, told me about a great spell caster on the Internet who helped her in a similar issue and also with financial problems. At first, i doubted it, but I decided to give it a try. When i contacted him, he helped me cast a re-union spell, and within 48 hours my husband came back to me pleading and apologizing to me. Today we are happy together, with abundant love, joy and riches. With our 3 kids, a boy and two girls. You too can contact this great spell caster today, on your relationship, marriage or money problems now via his private email:relieftemple@gmail. com.Thank you once more great one, I won't forget your good works on my family.

Reply
  about 1 year ago
You May Also Like
My Husband is Infatuated With Another Woman - 3 Keys to Win Him Back
  Wondering what you can do to regain your husband's interest when he becomes infatuated with another woman?  Here are three techniques you can use to become happy, regain your husband's interest, and rediscover your passions and excitement for life. 1. Become more powerful. Men, like women, are attracted to…
By:  in  Relationships  >  Conflict   Sep 20, 2011  
42
  Likes: 47

Getting My Ex Girlfriend Back - And Keeping Her Interest
The easy part is getting your ex girlfriend back, ironically enough. The tougher part is keeping her, if you don't know how to do this already. The thing is that there are specific emotional hot buttons that you must push (and this isn't a mean thing, it's just a little…
By:  in  Relationships  >  Reconnecting   Apr 07, 2011  
8
  Likes: 8

Tips On How To Get My Wife To Love Me Again
Whenever you have in your mind to do something that means the world to you, you must follow through or else you will not be happy with yourself. If you are constantly thinking, "I need real tips on how to get my wife to love me again", then that means…
By: Saytue Saye1 in  Relationships  >  Marriage   Aug 08, 2011  
38
  Likes: 84

Help Me Fix My Broken Marriage, Please
Marriage is not an easy word. At least it’s stronger than dating. Before you got married, what was your motive? I ask this question because I believe that everyone that decides to get married should get married to the person the absolutely love and admire. However, this is not always…
By: saytue sayewhat in  Relationships  >  Marriage   Mar 26, 2012  
3
  Likes: 3

Get My Ex Lover Back And Fix My Broken Marriage
In order to get ahead at love, you must be prepared for trials and tribulations. If you never expected your relationship to go through some things then, you went at it blind. Blind love and blind relationships are the worst to be in, because at the end, it never turns…
By: saytue sayewhat in  Relationships  >  Love   Mar 26, 2012  
1
  Likes: 3

How to Nurture a Broken Marriage
Jan had a major question in her mind. How to nurture a broken marriage was that to which she really wanted an answer. She knew that they both had made a lot of mistakes in the past. Now, it had come to the point where they were no longer just…
By: Dr. Randy Carney in  Relationships  >  Marriage   Jun 05, 2011  
0
  Likes: 0

Proven Advice To Get Back Wife
The day you got married you promised each other that you will stay together and love each other for better or for worst. What happened to that promises? Now that the “worst” happen, you two must go back and figure out what you think caused the split up. A broken…
By: Erhard in  Relationships  >  Love   Apr 10, 2011  
0
  Likes: 2

God Restore My Marriage- Is This You?
Are you asking "God restore my marriage"? If so, then I can tell that you really want to save your broken marriage. Understand this, however, in order for God to restore your marriage, you will totally have to take action and have faith as well as patience. When people get…
By: Saytue Saye1 in  Relationships  >  Marriage   May 08, 2011  
1
  Likes: 3

Are My Communication Issues Killing Our Marriage?
Your marriage is seriously on the rocks. You want to know how to make it right but you're afraid that you're the main problem in your relationship. Are your communication issues killing your marriage? When you notice problems in your marriage, it's good to ask hard hitting questions like these.…
By: T Dub Jackson in  Relationships  >  Communication   May 23, 2011  
0
  Likes: 0

Ways That Trust Is Broken - Get This And You Will Be on Your Way to Learning How to Rebuild A Relationship
Tears filled her eyes as she discovered that her trust in her husband had been broken. His heart ached as he realized he could no longer trust his wife. What went wrong? Ways that trust is broken in a marriage can manifest itself in many ways. When this happens, can…
By: Dr. Randy Carney in  Relationships  >  Marriage   May 27, 2011  
0
  Likes: 3

Infidelity In A Marriage - Avoid The 5 Traps Of Working On Your Realationship
This article will help be a great help to you if you've recently experienced an infidelity in a marriage and still have feelings for your partner. The natural first response is dealing with all the deception, anger, betrayal and devestation but if you find you still have feeling for you…
By: Denise A.Dilmore in  Relationships   Jan 04, 2012  
0
  Likes: 3

Fix My Marriage
So, it is obvious that you are asking God "fix my marriage". One thing you should know is that you are not alone. There are so many marriages that are and become broken, but somehow and someway, it blossoms again. In this article, I will encourage you to take action…
By: Saytue Saye1 in  Relationships  >  Marriage   May 13, 2011  
0
  Likes: 2

Save Your Marriage Alone - Are You Sure?
Are you sure you want to save your marriage alone? I hope not. If you're trying to save your marriage alone that means it's going to be a long journey for you. You might even give up because of the emotional distress you will face in the mirror. Why do…
By: Saytue Saye1 in  Relationships  >  Marriage   Oct 14, 2011  
0
  Likes: 1

Ways To Save A Marriage - Before It Gets Out Of Control
Is your marriage out of control? If so, then it's time to save your marriage before it does get out of control. When it's out of control, then it might be too late. Don't get stressed though, I know some ways to save a marriage before it does it out…
By: Saytue Saye1 in  Relationships  >  Marriage   Oct 17, 2011  
3
  Likes: 4

Marriage Counseling Books
There are thousands of marriage counseling books available for purchase. But, how much are you willing to spend on them? When it comes to marriage, you have to stay committed and try to work it out the best way possible. In this article, I will be explaining the rewards of…
By: Saytue Saye1 in  Relationships  >  Marriage   May 13, 2011  
0
  Likes: 0

Article Views: 24383    Report this Article