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Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Ignores You  -  The Truth

A break-up changes all dynamics between couples. Though every singular case is different, it is likely that you are not spending as much time together as you used to, and your interest in knowing what he is up to right now is on the wane. It can happen, in some cases, that one of you completely cut off all contact. If that has happened to you right now, you may be wondering as to why your ex-boyfriend is ignoring you. Understanding the psychology behind why he is doing so definitely helps you to get past it. If at all you have some of that old attachment left behind and want to be together again, understanding the motive behind why he is currently ignoring you is valuable.

The fact that your ex-boyfriend is ignoring you completely is very frustrating. It can be horrible for the woman whose boyfriend does not acknowledge any attempt that she makes to contact him, her mails or phone calls. It is worse off if you are still in love with him, and these actions can leave you very angry and vexed about what is happening to you. You feel he has lost all the respect and regard that he had for you and, as a consequence, you may end up doing many things (some of them may be uncalled for!) to get his attention. It is hard to be in control of your emotions at these times when the person you love most seems to be shutting the door on your face. But why is he doing all this?

He May Be Finding It Difficult to Communicate with You

The reason why he is ignoring you needs to be understood prior to any attempt that you make to deal with the situation. Understanding the issue is half the problem solved. First of all, understand that all the silence that he is demonstrating right now is not personally directed at you. It could be that he is not able to control the sweep of feelings that he has for you and the break-up has left him devastated. Do not be hasty at this point and jump to wrong conclusions. It serves you best at this juncture to take a realistic and mature view of the entire situation.

Men are not good at dealing with break-ups after all. It is the same whether it was he who wanted the break-up or not. Men need all the time to gather up all the feelings that seem to lie scattered after a break-up. Understanding this allows you to comprehend why your ex-boyfriend is ignoring you completely. Obviously, he is still trying to cope up with the surge of feelings that have thrown him off balance, trying to refocus and find out what he really wants for himself.

He Wants to Teach You a Lesson

If you are still wondering as to why you are being put through this torture and why your ex-boyfriend is completely ignoring you, the reason could be more than one. It is worthwhile to give a rethink to all what happened in your relationship prior to the breakup. Perhaps you need to say sorry for something that you did. Now is the best time to do it. If you do not remember any particular of action of yours that could have put him off, then it could be that you did something wrong inadvertently. You may not even have realized that it was wrong. Nevertheless, he can be angry for something that you did and which he did not like at all.

You may have hurt him and he wants to take it all out on you. The best way to do this is to ignore you and make you feel exactly like how he felt: rejected and hurt. Nothing can be worse for you other than being ignored by the man you love. Alternately, if he was the one who initiated the break-up, it may just be a game that he is playing. All these actions of his could be part of a greater plan to know if you still have any feelings for him. If he gets you to react at all, his male ego would clearly get the much-required boost knowing that you still want him. Though the act of ignoring you by itself is immature and hurting, remember that his emotions are running high after the break-up.

The best thing that you can do when you realize that your ex boyfriend is ignoring you is to stop trying to get to him. If he feels stifled with your messages and calls, the chances are that he will be in less control of his emotions. At this point, it is more sensible if you give him adequate time and space that he so badly needs. Life without you can be lonely and difficult for him and in all probability he will try and contact you for something or the other.

What To Do Next

As you have now seen, there are many reasons why he ignores you after the break up, you just have to learn to not take it too personally. There are some actions that you can take to change this completely and make him want you again. Do not make the wrong moves that make you feel embarrassed and small in front of him. There exist specific techniques which can get him to make the first move and contact you. You do not have to do anything at all. It is all about learning how to handle male psychology.

Do you want to know if he still has feelings for you? You should read the signs he still loves you before doing anything else. This will put you in a position of power when you know how he really feels about you after the break up.


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  about 7 years ago

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  about 7 years ago

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  about 7 years ago
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  about 7 years ago
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  about 7 years ago
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  about 7 years ago
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  about 7 years ago
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  about 7 years ago

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  about 7 years ago
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I am 48 years old, I am married for 20yrs now and I have suffered hell in the hands of my parents in-law, just because I am unable to bear a child, they have done all sort of everything to make sure I part with my husband. my husband has waited to the extent that he went having an affair outside our marriage due to pressure from his family. Just 4months ago here, I met with an old friend of mine and I told him about my critical life in my matrimonial home. He felt my pains and told me to meet a spell woman online who has helped so many people on issue even worse than that. I decided to meet the spell woman on the her email he gave me priestessifaa@yahoo .com., Unbelievably I told the spell lady my problems and he welcome me and asked me to leave all to her to handle, She told me that I would see result on the first night with my husband. Just as she says I got pregnant after a one night stand, It happened so easy like her powers has the key to open all doors. Am 7months pregnant now and has done a scanning to know its a boy. My family is so happy and my husband has promised me a car already all for the help of priestess Ifaa. I owe this spell lady everything. she extremely powerful and strong with her powers and very encouraging.

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  about 7 years ago
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