Relationship conflicts exist in every relationship. But it's about how you handle them is key to staying together. Now what I'd like to talk a little about is how(in my opinion), relationships, can be saved and as we all know, it takes lots and lots of work. We are male and female and react differently to certain situations.
Now I have been in a lot of relationships and there is always the same problems in each one. Relationships always start out wonderful for about the first month or so but then you start seeing the changes. And by no means is it always the woman's part, some times it is the man. But the point is, is that, the person that you now have spent this time with is the same person they are now. You should not have to change who you are. Maybe change you attitude about things, but you should never have to change who you are.
Another key to keeping a relationship together is COMMUNICATION...... I think this maybe the #1 key to keeping a relationship together because if you don't communicate then you won't know whats on the other persons mind. No matter how small or how big, communication in a relationship is vital. For instance, if the other person in your life does something that you don't like, you need to communicate that to that person or it will fester and fester so when you have a disagreement, it comes out and then you really hurt the other persons feelings, instead of saying something when it bothered you. We have to talk to one another, no mater what its about. The silliest conversations are some of the best conversations. You really get to know the other person when you talk. By all means,,,,,COMMUNICATE!!!!!
Now, a couple of things were covered here and I'm sure that if you practice these small task, I'm sure you will have a lasting relationship. Love is powerful but talking and staying true to yourself is paramount to experiencing wonderful life with each other. We can all be happy in life together and it's really not as hard as some people make it out to be. It just take work from both sides. It may be cliche but a relationship has to be 50/50 to work. I'm no relationship guru but I think that I have been in enough of them to understand what it takes to make one work. Maybe one day I will have the opportunity.
Peace with Love!
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