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Should I Give Up On Getting My Boyfriend Back?
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Is there every a time when you should just throw in the towel on the idea of getting back together with your boyfriend? Is this something that just isn't going to happen? Or is it too soon to give up just yet? You know you still love him. You think he still loves you. How do you know when it's time to let him go and just move on with your life without him? How do you make your heart ready to do that?

Letting go of the love of your life is never easy. In some ways, it's harder when you know he's out there somewhere moving on with his life – a life that doesn't include you. Some days that may feel like a little too much to bear. Other days you are able to at least entertain the thought without your heart feeling as though someone is crushing it. Time isn't a word you're interested in hearing right now but it's the one thing that is most on your side. In time you'll find the healing you need to keep going and even to recover from the pain that's taking over right now. Until then, there's no need to give up on getting your boyfriend back.

There's never a perfect time to give up on love. You may never reach a point where you want to give up on the relationship you had – or the one you thought you had as the case may be. The bottom line is that it's never going to be an easy decision to walk away. There are times though when walking away is the right decision. These are the times when it is absolutely best that you give up the dream that you'll get your ex back someday and move on with your life instead.

When are these times?

1) When the hope is causing you more pain than living without him in your life does. You know what I'm talking about. Every time you see him, hear his voice, or happen to be in the same room he's in your heart takes one glorious leap. It soars higher than it ever has before. Then when you realize that he isn't even giving you the time of day, the crash is harder and faster than any you've experienced before and the devastation is complete.

2) When you know that the relationship really isn't healthy. There is no amount of love in the world that is going to take a toxic relationship and turn it into one that flourishes – especially if only one person is putting in the effort. It's not good for you or him to even try making a relationship where there is abuse, cruelty, or a complete and total lack of care for feeling on the other side of the relationship.

These aren't the only times that it might be a good idea to move on and give up on getting your boyfriend back but they are certainly at the top of the heap. You'll have to be the one who decides in the end whether you're going to get your boyfriend back or make the tough decision to walk away. Just make sure that whichever decision you make it's one you made with your head held high.


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My whole life i ve never had a stable relationship all men come get want they and go. As a matter of fact i saw myself as tool for all men. I don't no its like i was just not loveable no matter how i give my all to them they end up living me with nothing but a broken heart. All these bad relationship i had experienced led to a psyhcological breake down thank my star that i got through that. Finding a man was never hard for me they just all wanted sex with me and once they get it, they all live but for the first time i found one that was willing to stay. I seeked advice and help if they could i even checked the internet for solution which endded up being a waste of time. However, i saw articles or rather comments of a lot of persons who used spell casting to fix their relationship and some it get those who they loved to see how much they loved them. And they all kept referring to a paticular spell caster mutton osun. At first i just ingnored it but my lover came across those article also. After we talked about it we desided to contact him and asked if he cud in any way help us. He just and only asked us to provide some really weird materials that just thinking if it made me scared not like they were harmful its just that i was not used to this things. We ie me and my lover desided that we sould asked him to get them with what we sent to him ie, money. We asked him to cast a spell to make ,y lover wife set him free and he did as we asked and it walked i know cos 12 hours before he said he has completed the spell, she was still very much not going to sign any divorce papper but after thecompletation of the spell all we did was give her the papper and without a fight he signed it. I know its hard to belief only the people close to us know how true this is. lets just say you want to contact use this email address godsofosunx@rockemail. com

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  about 6 years ago

I hate to say this i have to cos even of it feels wrong its something i had to do.Some people say if a door closes another opens but i say that is just a fancy way of dealing with the pain we feel cos really if we loss something or someone so dear, we can never really get a replacement cos nothing will ever seem to fit.Well that was just how i felt when my wife wanted out of a eleven years marriage with beautiful kids. As ashamed and as sorry as i am, it was all my fault. I made our marriage almost come to an end but glade it didn't all thinks to Mutton Osun a magic guy or rather spell caster as most people call it online.Its amazing how one mistake can take away all you have worked hard for in just a blink. Just a moment of weakness that made me cheat on my wife, would have been the end of all my happiness and my family. It didn't stay hidden for so long she found out and she lost it all i saw it clearly she still loved me so much cos in her eyes all i could see was deep pain and a thick cut in her heart even when she kicked me out and wanted a divorce. I loved this woman with all my heart heart and was really not going to let her go. As i said i asked a spell caster Mutton Osun to help me restore my marriage and my life cos really he was my last option to happiness again. His spell made the subconscious of her that always loved me selflessly surface again as he explained what ever he did help a lot as other article i read about him said, he only asks for materials for the spell and if it may arise extra money to ship the spell package to you. He is honest and trustworthy one of the only good help out there. IF you may contact do it with this email godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

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  about 6 years ago
mark36  

My name is Mark, from USA. I never believed in love spells or magic until I met this spell caster when i went to see my friend in Indian this year on a business summit, I meant a man who’s name is DR Moko he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the woman i had wanted to marry left me 3weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 years. I really loved her, but her mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 4 days when i returned to Canada, my Girlfriend called me by herself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and she got a new job interview, so we get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my girlfriend name. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my wife also got the new job and our lives became much better, You can contact him on this email: Mokospellcaster@gmail. com

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  about 6 years ago
mark36  

My name is Mark, from USA. I never believed in love spells or magic until I met this spell caster when i went to see my friend in Indian this year on a business summit, I meant a man who’s name is DR Moko he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the woman i had wanted to marry left me 3weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 years. I really loved her, but her mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 4 days when i returned to Canada, my Girlfriend called me by herself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and she got a new job interview, so we get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my girlfriend name. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my wife also got the new job and our lives became much better, You can contact him on this email: Mokospellcaster@gmail. com

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  about 6 years ago

maybe be someone out there is look for help to get back together with some you really lover i would advice you to contact mutton cos he is really good at this spell stuff.I know you all think that this might be a lie and a trick,The true is that you may be right i can prove it to you.But however you can contact can see for yourself his hand work i was in this problem and i had issue of trust but when i contact mutton for help his honestly was strong and i got a good result he definitely loves help out with relationship problem you can never be too sure of this unless you contact him for help.Here is an email address to help you reach him godsofsounx@rocketmail. com i promise you your decision will not bring regret ok.

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  about 7 years ago

This is a true story about a spell caster I met on the internet that help me to restore back my relationship without any spiritual effect. My lover decided to call a quit to our two years relationship. I was so devastated that i had an accident that left me bedridden. After 9 months of emotional pain and languish, a friend of mine introduced me to Dr. Kaka who helped her. So I told him my problem and did what he instructed me to do, In less than 48hrs i saw wonders, my Lover came back to me and my life got back just like a completed puzzle... am so happy.. I promised him that I am going to tell people who are still searching for the right spell casters to contact him as I did. Here is his e-mail: dr.kakasolutiontemple@gmail. com. God bless you Dr. Kaka Mary, USA.

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  about 7 years ago
toricater  

NO BODY IS ASKING OF COERCING ANY ONE TO DO ANY THING BUT I JUST GOT BACK MY HUSBAND WITH THE AID OF A SPELL PREPARE BY MUTTON OSUN AND IT HELP ME A GREAT DEAL COS OF HIM MY LIFE IS BACK ON TRACK MUST PERSONS MEANT SAY THAT I REAL DON'T HAVE HIM BACK COS IT WAS FORCED BY A SPELL.YOU HAVE TO KNOW THAT IS WAS DONE TO MAKE REALIZE WAT HE ONCE FELT FOR AND WAT HE FEEL FOR ME IN HIS HEART JUST THAT HE NEVER KNEW IT BUT THIS SPELL MADE HIM REALIZE THAT I AM HIS ONE AND ONLY.AND YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT MUTTON OSUN IS A RELIABLE MAN AND TRUTHFUL TO ANY ONE WHO CONTACT HIM.HE DOES NOT NEED YOUR MONEY FOR ANYTHING AT ALL ALL HE NEEDS FROM YOU IS TO PROVIDE THE MATERIAL NEED TO CAST YOUR SPELL MAYBE IF YOU CAN YOU CAN ASK HIM TO HELP YOU PURCHASE THEM COS HE HIS AN EXPERT IN THIS.OK THIS IS HIS EMAIL CONTACT IF YOU FEEL HE CAN HELP YOU COS IT ALL FOR YOU TO DECIDE. godsofosun@rocketmail. com

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  about 7 years ago

Priestess Yewa recently brought my fiancée back to my life, after we have been composed for 6years. We have stayed living favorably without any delinquent. I always converse about matrimony with her but she replies me with, And promise me that we will soon get married. I was shock on a faithful day when she called me and told me that she is no longer interested in the relationship, because she met another girl, and they were almost getting married. I was stunned and dizzy after hearing that from her. I was so drained and tried to get back to myself because deprived of her it was dreadful because I truly love her with the whole of my emotion. Until I was fixed up to Priestess Yewa whose email is greatpriestessyewa@gmail. com I communicated with her and she guaranteed me that my wish will be settled unto me after 12 hours, and she told me to count on her words, and she gave me every purpose why I have not to worry any longer. So that was how priestess Yewa came into my marital life and fetched my girlfriend back to me after 12 hours as priestess Yewa guarantee me, and now here I am affirming of her virtuous works. And she also cast money spell for me that really well-ordered out for me. So I will recommend you to contact her once you are in need of magic spell. She is sincere and real to help you out.. greatpriestessyewa@gmail. com.. Skype: greatpriestessyewa.

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  about 7 years ago

Most person probably don't want to read what a lesbian has to say but those who are look for way to get their relationship back, i need you to read this carefully and understand what i'm writing.Spell casting is real, as real as you walking to a pizza store to get one to eat.But you have to be carefully not to contact the wrong spell caster cos some can really ruin your life for you.I was going to mention one real and trust worthy spell caster to you all but still it your choice to want help for him.I mean i'm not asking any one to contact him i just want you to know maybe feel you like you're drowning in your problem and there is no way out then contact BOLOGO for help and i promise you will be glad you did cos he is true and honest with is clients.contact via email chiefpriestofogunshrine@gmail. com

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  about 7 years ago
KIRSTEN56  

Thanks to abuluspiritualhome@yahoo. com for At last my happiness has been restored by a Man named Dr ABULU ,, my name’s are miss KIRSTEN i want every one on this site or forum to join me thank this DR ABULU for what he just did for me and my kids . my story goes like this i was married to my husband for 5 years we were living happily together for this years and not until he traveled to Italy for a business trip where he met this prostitute who be witched he to hate me and the kids and love her only so when my husband came back from the trip he said he does not want to see me and my kids again so he drove us out of the house and he was now going to Italy for to see that other woman. so i and my kids were now so frustrated and i was just staying with my mum and i was not be treating good because my mama got married to another man when my after my daddy death so the man she got married to was not treating i and my kids well so i was so confuse and i was searching for a way to get my husband back to me and my kids so one day as i was browsing on my computer i saw a testimony about this MAN DR ABULU of abuluspiritualhome@yahoo .com shared on the internet by a lady and it impress me too so i also think of give it a try at first a was scared by when i think of what me and my kids are passing through so i contact him and he told me to stay calm for just two days that my husband shall be restored to me and to my best surprise i received a call from my husband on the second day asking after the kids and i called Dr Abulu and he said your problems are solved my child so this was how i get my family back after a long stress of brake up by an evil lady so with all this help from DR ABULU of abuluspiritualhome@yahoo .com i want you all on this forum to join me to say a huge thanks to DR ABULU and i will also advice for any one in such or similar problems or any kind of problems should also contact him for help Good bye

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  about 7 years ago
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